My boyfriend has anger issues and I'm sick of it but can't bring myself to end the relationship. We are currently on vacation. Yesterday we were at the bar and the bartender brought him the beer he ordered and he got angry that he didn't get the full glass of beer (just for perspective, he ordered 0,5 and got 0,45l.) I think he made a scene after that but he doesn't think so because in his word he didn't curse or insult anyone. He started to yell at the bartender that he was ripping him of. The friend that we were with told that me that he was acting like an as*****. He started to look at the receipt to see if they were running the bar illegally. We agreed with our friend to meet at another bar. I told my boyfriend I was feeling uncomfortable and that I wanted to go home. i tried to voice my opinion to him on the beer thing and he started to yell at me that I was against him , that I wanted him to sit there and do nothing while he was being ripped of. All I wanted to say to him is that I thought he could have handled the whole thing differently, but as per usual he wouldn't listen. So I just turned around and left because it was obvious he would just keep talking over me. This is another thing that he does that really bothers me. There is no way I can have conversation with him. He constantly talks over me and yells at me. And finally when I get a chance to say something he tells me he doesn't want to talk anymore and to leave him alone. So this morning he countined to yell at me. Told me that we were going to that bar with a measuring cup or that I can pack my things and go home. He even slammed and locked the doors while I was outside. He told me if I ever do something like that again and disagree with him we are over. I am just so sick of him. And the best thing is that today is my birthday and all I wanted was some peace and quiet. I don't know what to do anymore I feel like I am trapped.
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My boyfriend has anger issues and I'm sick of it but can't bring myself to end the relationship. We are currently on vacation. Yesterday we were at the bar and the bartender brought him the beer he ordered and he got angry that he didn't get the full glass of beer (just for perspective, he ordered 0,5 and got 0,45l.) I think he made a scene after that but he doesn't think so because in his word he didn't curse or insult anyone. He started to yell at the bartender that he was ripping him of. The friend that we were with told that me that he was acting like an as*****. He started to look at the receipt to see if they were running the bar illegally. We agreed with our friend to meet at another bar. I told my boyfriend I was feeling uncomfortable and that I wanted to go home. i tried to voice my opinion to him on the beer thing and he started to yell at me that I was against him , that I wanted him to sit there and do nothing while he was being ripped of. All I wanted to say to him is that I thought he could have handled the whole thing differently, but as per usual he wouldn't listen. So I just turned around and left because it was obvious he would just keep talking over me. This is another thing that he does that really bothers me. There is no way I can have conversation with him. He constantly talks over me and yells at me. And finally when I get a chance to say something he tells me he doesn't want to talk anymore and to leave him alone. So this morning he countined to yell at me. Told me that we were going to that bar with a measuring cup or that I can pack my things and go home. He even slammed and locked the doors while I was outside. He told me if I ever do something like that again and disagree with him we are over. I am just so sick of him. And the best thing is that today is my birthday and all I wanted was some peace and quiet. I don't know what to do anymore I feel like I am trapped.