I focus more on fitness then I probably should and I'm a free spirit.
I always try to be honest and kind whenever possible, let's see If I can keep it up as I continue to age.
I'm online most days, you can generally find me lurking in the Public Chat.
Wanna chat? My DM's are always open.
@itzxabby Just some personal advice, make sure to be careful who you are speaking with.
I'm sure you are already aware but there are plenty of creepers and assholes out there so always keep that in mind.
Otherwise, I hope you find someone around your age to chat with. Take care :)
I am attracted to girls and for me, it's always been three things that I find most attractive.
1: General Facial Features
2: Hair
3: Eyes
As for what I like in a person, general and simple kindness also goes a long way with me, I don't always feel nice but I do try my best haha. The way I look at it, people having and showing simple kindness is rare it seems in today's society so treat others the way you wish to be treated I say.
It's a cliche I suppose but I don't care much for the body shape of a woman. Of course, I have preferences like just about everyone but in general, I simply like what I like and don't apply a label to what I find attractive.
Perhaps It wasn't obvious, but I did indeed address both possible meanings to the question asked.
I spoke about what I found attractive and what makes me like a person.
Please re-read below in reference to what I like about a person.
"As for what I like in a person, general and simple kindness also goes a long way with me, I don't always feel nice but I do try my best haha. The way I look at it, people having and showing simple kindness is rare it seems in today's society so treat others the way you wish to be treated I say."
Also, I agree about your overall point. Looks have nothing to do with a connection you might have with a person.
@Orin-Lusterdxo I understand what you mean 100%.
I can look at a guy like Chris Hemsworth and not necessarily be attracted to him but still go "Damn, he looks great!" and appreciate his appearance.
@youkilledmedude Depends on what the person finds fun I suppose. Personally, I don't find it that fun. Miami is a party town, I'm not much of a party guy despite the fact I work as head of security for a local club here. I would personally much rather be at home cuddling and watching Netflix then be out partying haha.
@itzxabby Just some personal advice, make sure to be careful who you are speaking with.
I'm sure you are already aware but there are plenty of creepers and assholes out there so always keep that in mind.
Otherwise, I hope you find someone around your age to chat with. Take care :)
@Orin-Lusterdxo I understand what you mean 100%.
I can look at a guy like Chris Hemsworth and not necessarily be attracted to him but still go "Damn, he looks great!" and appreciate his appearance.
Perhaps It wasn't obvious, but I did indeed address both possible meanings to the question asked.
I spoke about what I found attractive and what makes me like a person.
Please re-read below in reference to what I like about a person.
"As for what I like in a person, general and simple kindness also goes a long way with me, I don't always feel nice but I do try my best haha. The way I look at it, people having and showing simple kindness is rare it seems in today's society so treat others the way you wish to be treated I say."
Also, I agree about your overall point. Looks have nothing to do with a connection you might have with a person.
I am attracted to girls and for me, it's always been three things that I find most attractive.
1: General Facial Features
2: Hair
3: Eyes
As for what I like in a person, general and simple kindness also goes a long way with me, I don't always feel nice but I do try my best haha. The way I look at it, people having and showing simple kindness is rare it seems in today's society so treat others the way you wish to be treated I say.
It's a cliche I suppose but I don't care much for the body shape of a woman. Of course, I have preferences like just about everyone but in general, I simply like what I like and don't apply a label to what I find attractive.
I would like to answer this question with a question of my own in some way. @Emma-Bradley
When you look someone in the eyes, what do you see?
One of the best questions I have seen out here because it’s so simple but really invites me to do some deep thinking.
Primarily, you can see the emotions of the people who’s eyes you’re looking into. You can tell if someone is sad, happy, scared, angry or surprised. You can also tell if they are attracted to you (dilated pupils in bright light.) Looking deep into someone’s eyes is a bit like getting a glimpse into their internal world through two windows.
However, it depends who’s eyes you’re looking into.
In general:
-When I look into my parent’s eyes, I see respect, sometimes pity, love and the complex emotions that can only be captured by someone who loves their child.
-When I look into my rivals’ eyes, I see judgment and maybe even fear.
-When I look into my best friends' eyes, I see excitement, admiration and a spark suggesting readiness for laughter.
-When I look into my teacher's eyes I see, I see wisdom and respect.
-When I used to look into my past significant other’s eyes, (cheesy) I saw oceans, galaxies, my world, myself, our love, her softness, an adventure and home.
It also depends on the natural intensity of the eyes. Strong blue eyes have a connotation with the ocean or ice. Vivid blue eyes (mine) make me think of rivers and a bit of mischief. Brown eyes make me think of chocolate. However, some eyes have a nice color but don’t reflect much emotion.
In the end, you see what you want to see, coupled with what they want you to see. Eyes are ” the window to the soul”, but they are a dusty, reflective, tricky window.
To answer your question, what would I do..? The same thing I've always done. Share a simple conversation to brighten another person's day in any way I can.
@youkilledmedude Depends on what the person finds fun I suppose. Personally, I don't find it that fun. Miami is a party town, I'm not much of a party guy despite the fact I work as head of security for a local club here. I would personally much rather be at home cuddling and watching Netflix then be out partying haha.
@youkilledmedude I was born in Berlin Germany. My Mother was American so therefore I have citizenship inside the US and at the moment I am living in Miami FL.
@youkilledmedude Same as my name on here, It's Connor.
Where are you from Paige?
Hey there!
Looking to chat with anyone about anything 🙂
It's about 12:20AM here as of the writing this on the East Coast of the US and I am quite bored myself. I'll be up decently late and just want a chat buddy.
Feel free to send me a PM if you wanna chat.