@F24Madison hey welcome to tws. Also if you want people to text you , you jeed to either follow them back or text them first or , change the permissions in your settings. Also im down to chat if the offer is still on the table.
We used to talk all the time but now look at us...
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet and these always lead to frustration, what is sad because we live in a world where everything is like water in our hands recently, even relationships, so this make us afraid to risk what we have, to give a try on love , as best example, the existence of dating apps, you don't need to search your love or feel something, just swipe right, talk for some minutes, ask to a quick date, and in the next day, just a hi hi, like nothing happened.
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What I like about @Rissa_TheBest is that you really engage a conversation and really defend your argument. I could swap thoughts with you for hours.
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet unfortunately she is sleeping now đŸ˜…
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It is quite possible. I am the worlds greatest night owl. lol. Not many can keep up.
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet I'm following you, so to not make this topic too long until the owner comes back we can discuss in pm if you want okay? Or prefer to share opinions here, well I'm not smart as @Rissa_TheBest but I know that she will let me continue
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Go right ahead here. She will join soon. this will boost her original discussion
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet alright, I'll try to follow this train, as you said talk with text can lead to wrong places due to wrong informations, many times, I saw someone asking, do you mean, or was sarcasm, because of lack of a emoji, today with text we hide our real faces with masks and we can be whatever we want, so is always good have an extra caution, once again this lead to frustration because of many ifs that can happen,and the feelings get hidden to themselves, what is no healthy, and create scars and even traumas.
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or they just rudely blow u off, or catch em chatting somewhere else and it is like dude. ass.
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the worst is because many do not want to text much, they shorten their responses so you get partial information. Then when you ask them to explain that take so long to answer that the translation has already been damaged.
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet yep. even worse when dating the person and they tell u oh i didn’t realize i had to. đŸ¤·
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Dah dah dah
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The worst is when you have a two part question, but the person you are talking to simply says no so you have to ask and clarify....
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Once I was dating a woman, and she was like crazy for me, wow so intense, one week later she was like, "hey you are not how I thought you were" , well she broke up faster than we started, this is another problem people doesn't have patience to meet each other, the traits, positive and negative, and jump straight to let's date.
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I call it the microwave lifestyle. people want everything right now. The matters of the heart take time to take root. Plus you need time to learn what you like or dislike about a person
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet .. I think you had bad experience happens in past about friend. But not everyone same. Making friends is good for all.
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I like your straight forward mind.
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You are right @sololight making friends is good for all. Yet, there was a time when I personally had gone to a deep low. I stopped reaching outwardly. I am difficult as well. I am one those deep thinkers that says exactly what I feel. I do not fit in to most arenas...
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thank you @sololight, that makes me feel quite happy
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet I must admit that some good surprises can Happens too, like you know the girl that was wanting me and I was blind, we are still together, btw she is the owner of this topic so this is why I didn't talked anything yet, I was just admiring her intelligence, and if we pay attention, we need to risk more , because if the modern age is like water, we need to make sure that instead of get with our hands , we need to grab a cup, and make our part to not break the glass with our fears, or the water will flow, away to the ground
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That is awesome @DennisJM the two of you seem to meld well together....