How many of you are married and single?

[sarah]

wondering

[joe123]

Single and ready to mingle

[Hunter]

Single at the present

[davitchen]

Statistically talking, here, 99% of boys are single and 1% is married (those who are married are here for fun and/or are unsatisfacted) x)

[sarah]

@davitchen I don't believe on 99% ... There are many married guys I found on random chat

[davitchen]

@sarah I only found two couples on a week, and i talk to strangers every day

[Sagar gupta]

U r asking a silly question u will only get reply that I am single because of the many horny singles here{perverts}

[Justy]

What will you do after knowing all these stuff?

[sh]

@sarah i agree that there are many married people

[sologeek]

@sarah believe me, having a solo gf is 100x better than being married

[davitchen]

@solo Is that why your name is "solo" and not "married"??!?

[sologeek]

@davitchen Hehe, yeah I guess, being solo is nice ill suggest u all to be that way

[W a v e y]

@solo I do feel that marriage is a terrible choice for men, considering all the ways that men can and more often than not ARE just honestly effed over by the statistically inevitable doom of divorce and all the great things it brings with it. What I'm wondering though, is what are your reasons for flying the flag for "living solo"?

And by being "solo", I assume you also don't do long relationships?
Just wanted to know to get some context.

[W a v e y]

@solo Well, we all have our preferences and reasons for them. It's always just interesting to hear what people's reasons and explanations for their life's choices are, rather than just hear them declare their status or disposition.

[W a v e y]

And to just generally answer on the topic itself, I'm in a relationship for well over 5 years and hopefully, if all goes right, soon will be engaged

[sologeek]

@W--a--v--e--y hey ur kinda solo, the open-minded one

[Tina]

@solo lol he is not solo...I thought waavy is single too... Well according to me everybody is single unless they get married

[W a v e y]

In the end, I think that we as humans, have not been designed to be monogamous, although there are definite benefits in monogamy. Being open about our needs and wants and being able to experience those on top of having the security and the special kind of a relationship with a specific person is, in my opinion, one of the best ways to maintain a healthy and happy relationship. Sexuality and how we view it, for the most part, is through the societal rules, which in most of our case, I assume, is related to the views of the early and many modern christians. And christianity, especially during the time of it's crusades and "cleansing" of the pagan ways from the people (religious genocide) was VERY dictatorial. Everything in your life was governed by the religious leaders and what they decided to be "morally acceptable" Sex positions and sexuality in general included.

Ps. I'm very sorry if I derailed the conversation, I promise to try to keep within the topic in future

[naveen007]

i am not married and single also. But have friends of mine who are married but are not happy maybe with their sexual life emotional life etc.

[ahb]

Single