What do you do after an argument?

[TheGoldenMole]

What do you do when you get into an argument with someone you care about? Are you one to apologize even if you don't feel wrong? Do you hold grudges? Do you wait for a kind gesture? What do you do?

[Lurker]

@TheGoldenMole

Im usually pretty flexible and chill but when someone keeps bickering with me and that person manages to make me lose my cool/rationality I become someone extremely stubborn.
On the other hand I always listen to the other POV and try to put myself in their place and I rarely ever hold grudges so all in all I think I don't remain upset or mad with someone for too long.

[alkal33]

i do hold grudges and i get very angry and i do not apoligze unless i realize im wrong i do not back down from my opinion.

[TheGoldenMole]

@DIV what kinds of grudges are worth holding and which aren’t?

[TheGoldenMole]

@Lurker what do you mean by stubborn? Does that mean you won’t apologize or admit when you’re wrong in that moment?

[TheGoldenMole]

@alkal33 have you ever thought you were right and end up realizing you’re wrong?

[alkal33]

@TheGoldenMole i mean im pretty stuborn and pretty dense so no

[Mr.Ghost]

What do you do when you get into an argument with someone you care about?

well, actually, I haven't had any arguments with anyone lately so I wouldn't know how to respond to that.

Are you one to apologize even if you don't feel wrong?

Not always, although for me, it depends on the type of discussion.

Do you hold grudges?

For the most part, yes, now if it's a case that doesn't surprise me, then no.

Do you wait for a kind gesture?

sometimes

[Lurker]

@TheGoldenMole

It's not that I don't admit it, I'm so stubborn that I don't see they are right

[TheGoldenMole]

@Lurker ohh that makes sense. What if you’re being stubborn and then realize that you are wrong?

[TheGoldenMole]

@Mr-Ghost no arguments? How do you stay argumentative free?

[TheGoldenMole]

@alkal33 doesn’t that get problematic?

[Lurker]

@TheGoldenMole

Usually, when that happens the Stubborn "tamtrum" has finished so I'd apologize for sure

[TheGoldenMole]

@DIV let’s say you already can’t trust anyone and assume they’re always lying to you. They could be telling you the truth but you just don’t believe them, what do you do then? Can you still hold a grudge?

[cjko]

@TheGoldenMole I usually ignore and keep quiet till her/his conscience wake him/her up!

[TheGoldenMole]

@cjko what if they ignore you back?

[cjko]

@TheGoldenMole I can still handle that..

[TheGoldenMole]

@cjko couldn’t that be the end of a friendship?

[cjko]

@TheGoldenMole not yet tho. I know they will miss me , they will miss the noise and the laughter. Hahaha

[Mr.Ghost]

@TheGoldenMole I know how not to be in an argument.