Does it consider as cheating if u have a partner and u love him so much but u sext with strangers online

[Bushmurry]

@lucifer_
Hey dude, love your contributions and thank you for weighing in. She has no problem with me flirting... pretending there is no-one else attractive in the world is an exercise in futility that is bound to fail and end up with you beating yourself up and feeling guilty. Flirting does not harm our relationship, and she of course flirts too. It's fine, I love the way she glows when she catches someone checking her out!
Talking to cam girls I keep to myself. There are many reasons I do it, and not all of them I am proud of. It actually can be very intimidating to tell the one you love your most taboo thoughts, for fear of judgement by someone you hold dear.

[Bushmurry]

@a-le It was hard to tell her. But honestly, I love her and feel proud when people make her feel sexy. After all, I benefit from this when we get home ;). She does not know everything I flirt about, and I don't know everything she flirts about. I don't need to know, I just want her feeling good about herself, and I want to feel good about myself.

Has your parents ever told you you're beautiful? It's like that... you believe them... but it's not a surprising thing to hear from them. Sometimes it is nicer to hear from a stranger.

[ODIN]

Well, i think it is better to stick on your relationship, flirting keeps relation at worst, and asking a man 3some is a bad idea. Just tell him the truth he will figure it out what to do.

[Bushmurry]

@ragnar-lothbrok I feel you could be right here. She obviously loves her partner, but he is finding it hard to be sexually open with her. Perhaps asking him if there is something he has been too shy to ask for would be a good first step?

[ODIN]

@bushmurry said in Does it consider as cheating if u have a partner and u love him so much but u sext with strangers online:

@ragnar-lothbrok I feel you could be right here. She obviously loves her partner, but he is finding it hard to be sexually open with her. Perhaps asking him if there is something he has been too shy to ask for would be a good first step?

Yeap, honest helps to create bond to each other and make relationship strong, she have to ask him and make him confortable for anything, i mean ANYTHING. i always make my gf as my best friend of all time that she feels most confortable around me.

[A.le]

@bushmurry that's good, I'd love to have a relationship as open...I do share my secrets but he doesn't respond... I mean he doesn't mind (this is what he tells me), but he doesn't have the same desires, so that makes it difficult for me to "explore options"...He would feel awkward if he had to share me with someone else, even if it's just virtually. I guess with time we'll maybe find a way, I just have to be strong and patient.
@Lucifer_ When I said "innocently" I meant I've never actually got "physical" with anyone, but I did get close...

[Bushmurry]

@a-le

@a-le said in Does it consider as cheating if u have a partner and u love him so much but u sext with strangers online:

@bushmurry that's good, I'd love to have a relationship as open...I do share my secrets but he doesn't respond... I mean he doesn't mind (this is what he tells me), but he doesn't have the same desires, so that makes it difficult for me to "explore options"...He would feel awkward if he had to share me with someone else, even if it's just virtually. I guess with time we'll maybe find a way, I just have to be strong and patient.
@Lucifer_ When I said "innocently" I meant I've never actually got "physical" with anyone, but I did get close...

I wonder if something is bothering him or changing in his life? I can tell you both love each other... you will make the right choices I'm sure. I just finished reading a book I think has a lot of good insights into this... "Mating in Captivity"... it helped me understand some of my own motivations and my partners motivations that I could not see by myself.

[A.le]

@ragnar-lothbrok oh I do open up and try to make him feel relaxed...believe me I'm pro communication and honesty but I just got to the conclusion that maybe he's just not as 'explorer' as I am when it comes to sex...which is a shame coz he's really good and I enjoy making love and everything we do, I just wish for that extra sparkle

[A.le]

@bushmurry thanks I'll check that out

[Lucifer]

@a-le Not physical I think that would be a good enough definition of Innocent.