Ehhh if you're already doing this, simpler to just straight up ask him. Hey you want to try sticking it in my ass? If not it's cool man. Something like that.
@Jesssssss well it's clear I can't convince you of my intentions so I will delete my account with this site by the end of today, but my email address will not change.
It has been an experience.
Bye,
Chris.