i cried for 3 days over this tragedy. gonna pick myself up and move on. i now realize. Kobe and people like him were put on this earth for us to try and emulate. as far as being a good husband, father, friend and person. to take anything in life head on and do it as well as can be and not cry about it. always try and better yourself and never stop educationg yourself. and always give what you have learned to other along the way. that is what i will take from this mans life. a celebration, not a mourning. he wouldnt want us to cry. he would want us is live and fight and smile while doing it!