I don’t know, I mean there’s no special reason
I feel like I don't exist.
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I have an identical twin and we fight. a lot. all my life I have felt the ugly one, the shy one, the anti-social one. I feel like I did not have enough friends, as opposed to her, and I did not make enough memories.
Currently, we are fighting about who had more "friends" and she is making me feel like I had none, and no one cared about me. Basically, I did not exist or I was not loved. enough.
I am so tired and exhausted. It is mentally draining me and I feel like I am to blame for everything.
I just hate being me.
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You need to be yourself. Too many people are trying to be like someone else. And it doesn’t work that way.
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@lonelyheart thank you.
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Well , don't hate yourself just because "others" make you feel non existents . Learn to love yourself and learn to live all by yourself,alone . Then you won't feel like that anymore and you'll love to be yourself.
So stay happy miss"twin" -
Listen to what people are saying. We care
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@Higma-J thank you so much. I really needed this.
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@lonelyheart thank you for caring.
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@vanteindo my pleasure, anytime I'm here for ya
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@lonelyheart no , some say good things and some say bad you can't trust those PPL
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Don't ever let anyone talk down to you. God made you unique. Just like he made everyone else. He also connects us with the best people in life when we ask him to do so. I have never met you, however, I know this, you matter. you are loved, you are enough. You just haven't met the person God has for you! Ask Him He will!
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@cme60 thank you. this means a lot.
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I feel the same way. I really hurts when do you actually hello have people in your life and they’re the reason that you feel like you are nonexistent. It’s hard when you have been hurt by so many people and you can’t tell anyone what’s happening to you. To feel like you don’t exist. Also means not being listened to or not being trusted or valued as a human being. When you feel like you don’t exist, you don’t care what happens to you do you don’t care if people hurt you and take a vantage of you. I don’t think not existing is the bad part. it’s the existing without anyone knowing who you really are.
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@vanteindo
I’m really sorry that you feel that way about yourself because someone put that seed into your head and it grew. Sibling rivalry is ridiculous. There’s always one person that believes that they are better than the other one one. It’s like my brother he believes that I lie about certain things that happened to me because it involves his partner. So your twin is like my brother meaning that they are willing to live in such denial about who they really are just so that they can make someone else feel small. Don’t listen to what they say to you. You’re the only one that can better your life. The past doesn’t matter anymore. The future in the present are all that you have to look forward to so figure out if fighting about the pastors, how you wanna spend your time. -
@No-one-knows-me ditto. thank you :)
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@vanteindo you have to love yourself. Because you are the one what you will have in your life. i mean even your family wont be with you all time. you will have own way. invest in yourself
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@Bagila yeah, you are right. I will try my best.
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@vanteindo to vibe alone is your strength not weakness,most of today friend exist in your life when you have something to offer to them,the day you don't have anything most of them will leave you
I can feel your thinking,we exist in our own world,just live your life happily either do improvement or do self realization that will be helpful for you friend❤️leave other social things as they are -
@thought thank you <3
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Comparing ourselves to others in this way is always stressful and usually causes bad feelings. I think the best we can do is to see our life as something unique and unrelated to what others (even our closest people) do or don't have. Sometimes people hurt us unintentionally but self confidence is the best way to forgive them and go on. We all matter in this life.
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i get it , like i have an rly smart older brother and sometimes its like ur parents dont even care or acknowledge you. hes so outgoing and social and i wish i was like him but im not and ur not like ur sister. and honestly thats what make you you
