Don't ever let anyone talk down to you. God made you unique. Just like he made everyone else. He also connects us with the best people in life when we ask him to do so. I have never met you, however, I know this, you matter. you are loved, you are enough. You just haven't met the person God has for you! Ask Him He will!
cme60

So sorry for your pain. Many of us find ourselves in relationships that go dormant. Before you give up, go back to when you met. Ask yourself what was so attractive about your partner. If it was physical first, you put your hope in something that will change over time no matter what. If you never developed an intellectual relationship you should try. It might lead to the physical coming around again. If that fails, the next thing to do is rediscover yourself and start all over with a better sense of who you want to share your life with. Hope this helps.
cme60