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@sir-devil I'm always hurting in the inside like my heart and I get scared of things too much I have too much anxiety and I feel like crying a lot but sometimes I can't and Idk what's going on with me I feel broken but Idk why
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@katie123 did something happened in the past to make you feel that way?
If yes, can you please elaborate on that.
If no, as you have said that you don't why you feel like this, it may be due to dissatisfaction with life or you may have lost the motivation that you once had for progress. It may even be due to some kind of medical condition. Some of them are known to invoke depression or anxiety. Talk with a friend about these issues. Go out with them. If nothing works, I suggest you meeting a therapist or a doctor. Our issues must be addressed to the right person in order to find a solution.
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Hi, guys! I am online!
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@sir-devil
So if you really are interested in hearing about others problems so here are mine.
Well i have family issues .. my "so called relatives are selfish and always interfere in my life and want to know everything i do and control it in a way. Even though i have told them mutiple times that i don't need their help. So what do you suggest here? I do have more issues but i can't really express them in words without feeling terrible about sharing it on chat. -
@tessha How are they interfering with your life? Are you living with them?
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@tessha how old are you, and what are you doing?
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Hi guys! I am online....after a long break, I guess?
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@sir-devil awfully long break!
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@sir-devil im about to do diarrhea but i cant jump in the shower after because the bathroom with the shower is locked because the maintenance people were here to fix my dishwasher
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@logan-gibeault Okay....That was oddly specific and I do think that I won't be able to help you much there.
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@logan-gibeault btw if you are about have diarrhea, why are you trying to jump into the shower.
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Hello, guys! I am online,...again.
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I dont know why, i really wanna have a lover but if there's someone around i just dont feel like to have one. Not that because they're not suitable with what i expected, but i think sometimes i dont want anyone to pay any attention to me (i always think i can do anything by myself so i dont need someone to help me). I've been feeling this for like a year ago, and i must say i feel pretty lonely most of the time. What should i do omg please help me
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@greentealover There's no way other than interacting more with others. From what you have described, it seems to me that you are desperate for love while being introverted. You don't need to grab other's attention. Just start by talking to more people. Maybe you have a good friend. Hang around with him more. Interact with others. It might take some time and may seem useless but I assure that it would work.
Not everything in life can be achieved alone. Sometimes you would need the help of others. Hence, it's okay to be introverted but not asocial (I'm not telling that you are asocial, just making a point).
If the things, I said are wrong and/or useless to you, it might be because I don't know much about you. Hence, if it's wrong, can you tell more about yourself and specify where I was wrong?
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@sir-devil well i dont think i'm too introvert, i mean i can easily get along with people if the other person is fun, im just not too expressive. I like to listen to someone's story rather than telling my story to others and usually i'm the one who listen more to what others say which makes a lot of people telling their secrets to me. I'm a damn good listener they say.
you know sometimes i wanna be seen 'smart, independent, superior' that i think it might be the reason guys are afraid to ask me for a date. and i'd rather to talk more about my passion, academics, and stuff rather than talk about feelings or personal stuff.
i just realize that some of what you said is true, thanks for letting me know. that really helps
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@sir-devil hello sir devil I want to ask you something about a relationship, do you think it's okay to give your boyfriend or girlfriend that cheated on you?
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@ttls Pardon? What do you mean by "give"? Give what?!
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@sir-devil oh sorry I forgot to add give a chance
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@ttls Not really. I wouldn't really recommend it. While they cheated on you, they knew that they were doing wrong to you and also that you would be hurt but they did it anyway. They did it while fully knowing that you would be hurt.
and due to them cheating on you, it is fair to assume that they are only after sex. If not, they would have valued your relationship more or at least, have the decency to break up and cut ties, before hooking up with another person.
And finally, Since they had already cheated on you before, there's no assurance that they would not do it again in the future.
So, if you want to give them a chance, consider these things and make a decision.
In other words, you can give them a chance, if you completely trust them and the reason they gave you for cheating on you,
