Marriage and Love. When to give up is when it is gone! But let me explain what I mean as gone, no more, vanished, does not exist no longer. My first marriage was beautiful, a perfect fairytale TV Wedding, it was just awesome. I loved my little bride and tried to make a good life. We had 2 kids a new house new cars, motorcycles a boat always doing something but that only lasted awhile then I guess she got bored and started having many affairs and drinking drugs. It still took over 4 years and 2 treatment centers but it wasn't until I realized that I did not LOVE HER any longer actually it made me physically ill to be around her that is when I knew it was time to leave my marriage. Now I am in a Marriage where we both love one another but due to some emotional trauma in my wifes life we have not had a sexual relationship in over 7 years is this reason for split up no I don't think so because we still love. So let that b ur answer is there still Love.