Name: Sara
Age: 23
Height: 172cm
Zodiac sign: Sagittarius
Eye colour: Dark Brown
Hair colour: Dark Brown
Biggest dream: To have a happy and fulfilled life
One wish: Time Travel
Someone you love on TWS (cannot be your bf/gf): Can't say- new here
Favourite emoji:

omg! i do that too...!!!!

So a few weeks ago, i was having drinks with a male friend after a movie. I've known this guy for almost 3 years now, and while were having drinks, he told me he liked me and said he could not tell me before because he was too nervous and that the drinks had helped him loosen up a bit. However, he also said at the time that he was not in a position to ask me out on a date, as he had some shit going on or whatever. I didn't feel the need to say anything to this and I just said Ok and pretended that nothing happened. I am not into this guy by the way. I mean he is a good friend, but I am absolutely not into him.
So a couple days ago, this guy asks me to come for a movie. I agree and then afterwards we go for lunch and have drinks. Now I am under the impression that this guy won't ask me out as he said the last time. However, this guy now starts to like legit ask me out and tell me how much he likes me and everything. I got so nervous that I drank a lot and then proceeded to get sick. He got me a cab to home. and then again asked me out about it the next day. So i said No to the dating question.
So my point is did i give this guy some kind of encouragement, like did my agreeing to see him again was a wrong signal of some sort. Should I have not gone out with him at all. And I know I should not have drunk. But guys please tell me if I have given like a massive wrong signal, or not. Also I've known and hung out with this guy several times before and that's why I thought it would be Ok. But guys I'd appreciate any perspective on this right now.
Let me know what you guys think.

@sup hahahahaha....if i have waited this long, i suppose i can wait a little longer.

cool!!!!!

@shaun-durwin Thanks so much. It makes me feel marginally better. I have in very clear terms told him now that I don't want to date him and have also asked him to give me some space. I think that makes things pretty clear. I hope.

I don't think this qualifies as dark side of life, but I have a hard time focusing on my work. I procrastinate a lot, and I need to stop doing that. I try to tell myself that it's probably because I don't really like what I do, but I think the fact that I just can't focus on anything productive is my real problem. I just wish I could find the determination to overcome this endless loop of my wasting time. If anybody has any ideas, I'm willing to listen.
thanks alot!

@green-archer Thanks for your opinion. But the thing is I have never found him attractive. I was never testing him because I was never interested in him that way. The only reason I was friends with him or even hung out with him was because the place where i work has fewer female co-workers. I never get too friendly with guys if I have the option of having a female friend. I am straight btw... and this guy seemed like a safe bet because ususally the guys who are like creepy, start hitting on you early on. Since i've known him for almost 3 years and he never said anything I thought things were platonic from his side too. But i'll b careful in the future as to how i behave around guys. I know actions can be misinterpreted.

Name: Sara
Age: 23
Height: 172cm
Zodiac sign: Sagittarius
Eye colour: Dark Brown
Hair colour: Dark Brown
Biggest dream: To have a happy and fulfilled life
One wish: Time Travel
Someone you love on TWS (cannot be your bf/gf): Can't say- new here
Favourite emoji:

I don't think this qualifies as dark side of life, but I have a hard time focusing on my work. I procrastinate a lot, and I need to stop doing that. I try to tell myself that it's probably because I don't really like what I do, but I think the fact that I just can't focus on anything productive is my real problem. I just wish I could find the determination to overcome this endless loop of my wasting time. If anybody has any ideas, I'm willing to listen.
thanks alot!

@alizajalebiiiiii I think you're right. I'm going to keep that in mind in the future. Thanks so much.

@green-archer Thanks for your opinion. But the thing is I have never found him attractive. I was never testing him because I was never interested in him that way. The only reason I was friends with him or even hung out with him was because the place where i work has fewer female co-workers. I never get too friendly with guys if I have the option of having a female friend. I am straight btw... and this guy seemed like a safe bet because ususally the guys who are like creepy, start hitting on you early on. Since i've known him for almost 3 years and he never said anything I thought things were platonic from his side too. But i'll b careful in the future as to how i behave around guys. I know actions can be misinterpreted.

@shaun-durwin Thanks so much. It makes me feel marginally better. I have in very clear terms told him now that I don't want to date him and have also asked him to give me some space. I think that makes things pretty clear. I hope.

@scottyboi could you please answer my question first

So a few weeks ago, i was having drinks with a male friend after a movie. I've known this guy for almost 3 years now, and while were having drinks, he told me he liked me and said he could not tell me before because he was too nervous and that the drinks had helped him loosen up a bit. However, he also said at the time that he was not in a position to ask me out on a date, as he had some shit going on or whatever. I didn't feel the need to say anything to this and I just said Ok and pretended that nothing happened. I am not into this guy by the way. I mean he is a good friend, but I am absolutely not into him.
So a couple days ago, this guy asks me to come for a movie. I agree and then afterwards we go for lunch and have drinks. Now I am under the impression that this guy won't ask me out as he said the last time. However, this guy now starts to like legit ask me out and tell me how much he likes me and everything. I got so nervous that I drank a lot and then proceeded to get sick. He got me a cab to home. and then again asked me out about it the next day. So i said No to the dating question.
So my point is did i give this guy some kind of encouragement, like did my agreeing to see him again was a wrong signal of some sort. Should I have not gone out with him at all. And I know I should not have drunk. But guys please tell me if I have given like a massive wrong signal, or not. Also I've known and hung out with this guy several times before and that's why I thought it would be Ok. But guys I'd appreciate any perspective on this right now.
Let me know what you guys think.

cool!!!!!

omg! i do that too...!!!!

@jynextremist i've had crushes. But they remained crushes. Nothing more.