I dont think life is suppose to be easy, every problem u encounter is unique and is dealt with accordingly. There is no one way or one magic secret to life, its different for every person, if something works for someone else doesnt mean itll work for u. With that said what worked for me was not being overly ambitious and being ruled by my fears, the fear of failure especially and not being good enough. That fear is what pushed me forward in my case. Also i tried to never see things as a competition with anyone else i believed that i have my own place in this world and my own purpose

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He is prob right