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@Niikkii This is such a difficult question, I think men as we age look for different things in women. As a boy, 13 - early 20s I wanted looks, if she didn't look good I wouldn't even consider it - which is awful. Of course what's attractive varies but it's usually whatever society says is attractive - thin, long hair etc.
As I got older I really wanted a woman who was smart, looks are nice but if we can't talk then what's the point? I also want someone who is strong emotionally, she can be vulnerable but can also deal with things, know how to take care of herself and others.
Really, and this sounds so crappy, you have to know what you want in a guy and then look for ones who have those qualities - don't shape yourself to meet some guy's standards - that never works out. Guys sense that, will take advantage of it and then move on.