@devilmoon hey thanks I appreciate your input, I forget to mention Its is for 3 months though, not sure if that should make a difference or not, i think it's mainly the time that's the issue...do you think 3 months is unreasonable?

On one hand I understand if it was me I wouldn't be too happy about it for such long time but wouldn't end relationship, but I begged him to come with me even offered to pay for him. Going with my siblings and their partners overseas for snow season. I don't know what to do, am I in the wrong?