Back when i was younger (16-21) I found it remarkably easy to just strike up a conversation with someone and become friends in not time at all, that's actually how i met most of my long standing friends. But over the past few years I've come to realize that's something i just can't do anymore. I now find it extremely awkward to try and talk to someone I barely know and try to have a lengthy conversation, i guess i just feel like i need to actually know who this person is and what their personality is like before i can even begin to enjoy having a conversation with them. Now i know you're going to say "But Nick the only way to actually get to know someone is to talk to them", and i know that is 100% true which is why i understand how irrational my logic behind this is. I suppose I'm just ranting about getting older but this whole mind set im stuck in really sucks :/. It definitely doesn't help when trying to go on a date with someone or actually finding a significant other lol.
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Posts made by Nick2525
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As i get older I find it harder and harder to actually have a conversation with people.
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RE: Bored and looking to chat.
@coner-forev Yeah i know exactly how you feel, it gets to be a bit much sometimes. Although it seems like I'm stressed more often than not lately.
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RE: Bored and looking to chat.
@coner-forev Pretty much the same, just watching some old T.V shows since my insomnia wont let me sleep :/
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RE: Bored and looking to chat.
Hello corner I'm nick, how are yo doing today?
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Bored and looking to chat.
As the title days I'm bored and just looking for someone to chat with, preferably female. I'm a bit of an introvert so I sometimes find it difficult/awkward to go out and meet new people so here I am. If you would like to chat feel free to send me a message :).