Posts made by Lovelost

@hardik5369 he doesn't treat me badly. I love him. But I need people who aren't in out relationship to give me an objective idea of if I should stay with a man who had never had a job when I have ever since we've dated... And shows no signs of ever getting a job or getting help...

@hardik5369 if he is then why doesn't he share it with me? I don't think he is

@Heilmaus thank you. But he won't agree to therapy... He needs help but he won't get it. If you have any tips about how I can talk to him to get him to listen and understand the situation?

@Rohitag I gave him a time limit, it's come and gone. I'm not sure what you mean by get him a job, I can't get one for him?

@Rohitag we've had a couple deep discussions about his struggle to find a job. I think we've made progress but then nothing. He complains about my help trying to find suitable jobs and he doesn't update me on anything he's doing. He hasn't been for any interviews

@Rohitag no kids. Neither of us want them. One of the things that makes us compatible.

@Rohitag he was doing part time study by he's given up on that

@Rohitag he has done some stock market but it's not successful enough to make any real returns

@Rohitag not worried enough to get any kind of job/apprenticeship/work experience of any sort. Or any kind of help or support...

@Rohitag I don't think he is trying. I'm worried he's lying to me about applying for jobs. He hid from me how little the amount of savings he has left...

We have been together 13 years, married 2. We met when we were teenagers I've had jobs the whole time. I now have a successful career in healthcare.
He has never had a job. Ever. We've done things 50/50 because he had inheritance. It's running out and he doesn't have a job. He says he's looking and trying but he's never had a job in 13 years. I don't know if I can carry on like this. Everything else in our relationship is good.

What do I do?

@asianchick hey