Posts made by Lnrfg2272891

Your nickname states as you had other intentions. I had no idea that lying is part of being ideal!

@Psymaster said in I lost a very important individual that was actually being medically helped by me:

@Eucalyptus You do not know what a nerve even is? And you know you dont? hahahaah

Sic transit gloria mundi.

@IdealMan your nickname was "m18 looking for naughty f", wasn't it? That would be enough to answer my question.

You needed 3 replies to answer me? Pretty emotional for someone that claims to be so intelligent and understanding of their own nature. Flynn effect? For the sake of reason, please name the proper ones. Dunning-Kruger feels closer. It is, however, pointless to continue, you have taken onto the path of believing what is convenient for you. Oh, and you might be able to help by actually being interested in what one has to say. @Ash29, would you like to be more explicit on what exactly happened?

@IdealMan said in Looking for m18 here for a naughty f:

@Rhaynne 😂 I'm sorry about that one. I was experimenting lol. What do I tell you.

Smells like a predator to me.

Is this like a place you feed your ego on? Well, well, learning so much about human behavior and still unable to introspect.

Fear of what, her no longer considering you her friend? Ignoring the signs and distancing yourself is a sure road to the decay of a friendship, whereas you asking her what is happening is yet to be discovered. There could be a myriad of possibilities - while your assumption could be right, what if she is going through hardships (which could affect her emotional state and thus explain her harsh words), and she needs you the most now? Take the initiative, show that you care - and if it doesn't work, at least you know you've fought for maintaining it.

I am happy to hear that your relationship relies on traits such as honesty and communication at such levels. I can admit to having been chasing those for quite a while now. Are the remarks she is making during the fights taken out of proportions? While truth is often hard to bear, I suspect she adds more to it. As for your promise, picking up her phone is never going to entirely work. For all I know, you could very well not do that but eavesdrop, ask her friends about her whereabouts and so on. This event should he a reminder that she truly cares about what you two have and you are not this replaceable, ephemeral person in her life. Glad it got sorted out!

Finally, some content on this dead zone! Making the relationship official with insecurities and a lie (not telling her) is quite a rough start. One should come clean about such things. You can keep it inside up until it eats you alive or confess to your fear. You might want to ask yourself why she would cheat on you or why you fear her leaving you. And if the morality of this is not enough of a motivator, do think that she might be hearing all of this from her ex.

I hope you will find Jared jomewhere

If your wiener is not going to be in sight, well, feel free to - I am confident that the deceased would appreciate people using this event as a way to show more skin.

Then why are you sharing this thought with others? You could have very well kept it to yourself.

The dread of the start of the week vs. the joy of its end.

@erikagautney Kindly put this confession of yours as your description so people can save their breath.

You'd need a brain transplant for that.

Hey, I am not random.

@erikagautney I'm sorry, is this the same Erika I was talking to? This one seems pretty emotional. I would like to hear the rational one.

Ah yes, the close-mindness is, once again, prevalent.