I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year and 4 months now. We met through a foreign dating event. It’s a long distance relationship that started as a cyber relationship, we’ve met 6 times in the span of our relationship. I visited her on her birthday roughly 2 months back, it was an amazing trip! She brought me to places in the Philippines outside of her city and Palawan is really a breathtaking place.

She’s been feeling sick for the past weeks and she has been worried if she caught something or worse… I told her to go have a checkup and surprisingly enough, she’s pregnant. I trust my girlfriend and I know she wouldn’t cheat on me. Despite being confident that I’m always “safe” there might have been a slip.

Anyway, I don’t know what to do… I’m not sure if I should ask her to come here in Arizona or if I should go to her instead. I don’t want her to do this alone and I want to be there every step of the way. Would it be wiser to marry her now before the baby is born? I am dating her with marriage in mind and to be honest I think it’s alright to get married… but with a baby on the way, I’m also pressured since I did not expect things to progress to this stage before I even planned on proposing…

What should I do? I really need advice… I love her and I want to be with her but a part of my feels like I’m not ready to have a family yet, but I want to do my best not just for her but for our child… HELP!!!

@marziaaa I might propose to her soon. We just need to decide about getting married first or wait until the baby is born. Now that we're expecting our first child, my love for her has grown so much! Thanks for your response!

@hurleyking This is inspiring. Thanks for your advice. I love her so much and I know she feels the same way. This is something I need to decide properly and maybe giving her the happiness she deserves is the right thing to do! Thank you so much!

@xkeziahx25 Hey thanks dude! Will definitely do that!

@marziaaa I might propose to her soon. We just need to decide about getting married first or wait until the baby is born. Now that we're expecting our first child, my love for her has grown so much! Thanks for your response!

I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year and 4 months now. We met through a foreign dating event. It’s a long distance relationship that started as a cyber relationship, we’ve met 6 times in the span of our relationship. I visited her on her birthday roughly 2 months back, it was an amazing trip! She brought me to places in the Philippines outside of her city and Palawan is really a breathtaking place.

She’s been feeling sick for the past weeks and she has been worried if she caught something or worse… I told her to go have a checkup and surprisingly enough, she’s pregnant. I trust my girlfriend and I know she wouldn’t cheat on me. Despite being confident that I’m always “safe” there might have been a slip.

Anyway, I don’t know what to do… I’m not sure if I should ask her to come here in Arizona or if I should go to her instead. I don’t want her to do this alone and I want to be there every step of the way. Would it be wiser to marry her now before the baby is born? I am dating her with marriage in mind and to be honest I think it’s alright to get married… but with a baby on the way, I’m also pressured since I did not expect things to progress to this stage before I even planned on proposing…

What should I do? I really need advice… I love her and I want to be with her but a part of my feels like I’m not ready to have a family yet, but I want to do my best not just for her but for our child… HELP!!!