I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year and 4 months now. We met through a foreign dating event. It’s a long distance relationship that started as a cyber relationship, we’ve met 6 times in the span of our relationship. I visited her on her birthday roughly 2 months back, it was an amazing trip! She brought me to places in the Philippines outside of her city and Palawan is really a breathtaking place.
She’s been feeling sick for the past weeks and she has been worried if she caught something or worse… I told her to go have a checkup and surprisingly enough, she’s pregnant. I trust my girlfriend and I know she wouldn’t cheat on me. Despite being confident that I’m always “safe” there might have been a slip.
Anyway, I don’t know what to do… I’m not sure if I should ask her to come here in Arizona or if I should go to her instead. I don’t want her to do this alone and I want to be there every step of the way. Would it be wiser to marry her now before the baby is born? I am dating her with marriage in mind and to be honest I think it’s alright to get married… but with a baby on the way, I’m also pressured since I did not expect things to progress to this stage before I even planned on proposing…
What should I do? I really need advice… I love her and I want to be with her but a part of my feels like I’m not ready to have a family yet, but I want to do my best not just for her but for our child… HELP!!!