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So I have been struggling with what a lot of people have labeled an addiction. I am not a sex addict per say but I can not achieve orgasm through "Vanilla sex" it is hindering my marriage as my husband doesn't understand it or get that is how I deal with stress and pain is through physical ways and he is super submissive towards me which stresses me out what do I do? Any feedback is appreciated t in advance