hey girl i get you. I have a bf and i get that same fear when i walk into a room with girls with fatass and think my bf might look. Look i’m not trying to make you feel like your carzy because you are probably not and this guy is just toxic asf. The truth is that sometimes out significant other is gonna look at people and we are never gonna be okay with it but it just depends what type of intentions they have by looking. Like we all have looked at a gym girls but before and we didn’t have bad intentions were just like “damn she ate” guys could do the same thing. There a difference between checking out and looking and you have to make sure you know the difference because making a hash decision