Posts made by HiHelloBonjour

@Matt_Aranha Thank you so much for your response!! It really helped me to see a bit more clear.
To answer your question yes, I'm definitely into her and felt pretty hurt when she said, that she only sees me as a friend. That's why I put my guard up and told her I felt the same way. Because I felt so dumb I told her that I actually like to flirt with a lot auf people and that's why I flirted with her too and I hope that she didn't mind. She was really cool about and said that she sometimes noticed me flirting with her over text but didn't think anything of it. All of those things made it seem as if she's really not into me but my intuition told me something different and your response also confirmed me that she might like me more.

So basically, we met on a LGBT Dating/Friendship App and her profile said, that she was interested in dating or friendship. We’ve been texting since 8 months now and we’ve been giving each other mixed signals. A few days ago, I asked her if she sees me as a friend or maybe more and the way I said it sounded like, as if I only wanted friendship. It was kind of dumb, since I sometimes flirted with her online. She basically told me, that didn’t have any clear intentions going into the app and sees us friends, but she is always open to the idea to maybe become more, since you never know what the future brings. Because of my pride, I told her that I only see her as a friend too and since we talked about that, she suddenly told me that she’s free next month so we can hang out for the first time. I thought that was a bit weird because we’ve been wanting to see each other for a very long time and now after we “had the talk”, she wants to see me? Also, she’s been texting me a lot more lately and is asking me a lot of questions again. I’m so confused. Was she lying or does she really just see me as a friend? Trust me, I’m not delusional and seriousy just don’t understand her.