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I'm looking for Richard, 22 from London and his a firefighter. This is Ann and if ever you see this message you can send me a message too. I had a very nice time talking and listening to you.

@DarkHorseDemon sorry for the late reply, Mr. I got you 😀. Actually you have a very big point. That is very obvious since then. In fact even in our society it is undeniably observed. (even a person is not popular in the first place) . Say for example, a person who is totally different, whom you think is greater (an alpha) than you. Allow me to state this fact, we were colonized by western for 3 centuries, how we act towards Westerners might be an effect of what they did as influencers. They have instilled in our minds that we are lower, nothing, and illiterate form of human beings. Hence, until now it's part of our mindset that whenever we see western people or foreigners, either black or white, we tend respect them even more because of amazement and how we look at them.

In my opinion, its very sad that we easily fooled from what is obviously seen outside richness, power, and beauty.

***You should adjust in the society, not the society will adjust for you.

There  are people who choose to hide there feelings, pretending that they are happy but they're not. They just have to do it to show to the world that they are strong but the fact is they need someone to help them realize that its fine, that life works that way to have an exciting plot of one's story.

@DarkHorseDemon Well, yeah... Its okay Mr. 😀 you have your own thoughts regarding the statement, that would be perfectly fine though, I respect it very much.

For me, being kind is not always what you or others think of. I don't want to be specific for this because kindness might be taken differently. Say for example if you want your love ones be safe all the time, you give all your efforts and the best thing that you could give, even if you think that at the end they will misinterpret it, hate you and never ever talk to you. You ignore your own feelings, bite you lower lip, and choose to do or say the things that you think is best.

Yes, at the end, both of you get hurt towards each other but you'll get the point that you just chose the right one, hence you'll not feel any regret and even a single guilt for yourself and for that person. You just did what you should suppose to do, that's it, at least you just created the least damage than what you have ever predicted. 😀

@DarkHorseDemon Thank you for your curiosity Mr.

First and foremost,  respect should not be asked or demanded from anyone nor be done to anyone. It is freely given in any circumstances that are considered proper or appropriate. Logically, it's a give and take type such as respect from a child to his father and a father to his child. If you want to be respected, you, yourself must show respect to yourself before others give the respect you deserve. Thus, if you think that they don't deserve the equal respect you want for yourself then be it, at least you never showed anything (by words or deeds) that in turn you'll be labeled disrespectful, not unless you find so much foolishness in them that you can control your emotion (remember we are just human). I hope you get what I mean Mr 😄. Again you don't have to lower yourself and give unconditional respect to anyone because we are born equally (no matter how diverse we are). Because, if that would be the case, there will be two type of person who will become popular  around the world, the abuse and the abusive.

Don't believe to people for the very first time through words or deeds. Remember, the world has full of illusions, so don't be fooled by these. You have to go series of process before you nod and give your judgement.

You should learn how diversity works. Learn to respect it, if you wanted to be respected.

@HarryUrie aside from that you never know you can friend real people too. It's worth to try tho, to socialise, but you have to put a limitation for yourself so you won't hurt that much when feel disappointed. 😄😃

@HarryUrie Can you tell yourself that you are a good influencer to people whom you chat? Can you tell that you are giving a big impact to them and you learn from them as well? Can you figure out that you somehow help people by your words and somehow let them feel that they are not alone, that life is a challenge and they need someone to help them stand and fight the very best they can. Make them realise that it's okay not to be okey. And if your answer is yes then you are doing the right thing and you are just being kind. Your not wasting your time, you are just doing your job being a human. 😄

When you choose to be right or to be kind, always choose to be kind. Because being kind is always right. ❤️

Pervert and rude people have no place on Earth but they have on Venus, the hottest planet in the solar system.

You are blessed to be human so act like one! 🙂

@riagan I understand your concern therefore I thank you 🙂. Don't worry I'm a very selective person and I can read people's intentions, I can tell. Also I would like to let them talk first and explain before I take an action hence I was able to explain these things to you. Thank you 😀😀

@riagan there is honestly, what I meant is you just have a single reason and you're generalising it. It would be unfair to those people who have different reasons. So we should not be judgemental, there are women and other below there legal age who asked to because they had not seen a person from afar chatting them, so they are just curious what's that person look like. Are you saying that they all think the same, No of course so allow them to ask and never ever judge them when you don't know. 😀😀

@riagan maybe you have to rephrase your sentence. You don't have to generalise them. Remember, there are more that 3500 people who are using this site. What about those 10% people who are thinking that this site is a great avenue to express one self knowing the fact that some of us might be suffering from anxiety and depression due to what we are facing everyday. Some just want to share what's in their heart that breaking them into tiny pieces. You're just judging them.

There were a lot of people in this site who have asked how I look like and even requested a photo of mine (both men and women), however it is always been my answer to say NO. Following to my answer is a question, Why are you curious? I'm fluttered with similar replies I got, they were very curious to the person behind the name HIGHLIGHTER. Others would say they want to be friends with the person behind the screen which made me think for a second.

Isn't it better to see how nice a person base on how he/she replies without filter? Isn't it better to find out his/her character first and discover that when the time comes he/she well never ever judge you because that friend you knew for years has pure intention. Thus he/she will never ever think to reject you as a being because your friend got a chance to read you before. Isn't it cool that you find a person interesting by how he/she gives you time and emphaty whenever you feel life is unfair? Lastly, isn't it safe for both of you to feel private for a moment as you discover commonalities that make both of you click as friends but amazingly feel that there's somebody out there who ask for your goodness and safety from Him.

What I'm trying to point out here is, a picture only tells you the outside but never gives you the chance to see the real beauty that last forever.

This is not just for you but for everyone! 😀🙏

This is highlighter and this is what I want to highlight!! 😁😁

Blessed to see how far I navigate the site 'til now, however like any other platforms we can't deny the fact that their are countless people who are rude and pervert trying to defeat the good intention of the site. On the other hand, its you, yourself, to decide how to deal these people around here, remember that more than 3500 people who are using the site and you may landed to the wrong person. For me, pros and cons are always  there but very very glad to have encountered people who are decent, willing to share their stories, and most significantly they showed respect to people especially to a lady like me (which sometime unusual to happen as we are now in 21st century leaving behind the good morals and values we have). One thing that I would like to share and the reason why I spend some time in this site is the culture we have in my country which I'm very proud of, promote equality, express empathy to people, and give positive impact not just in one area but to the whole world. I have met people in different countries and so far they had shared a lot of things which I found unrealistic before. I have talked and chatted people in India 🇮🇳,  Serbia 🇷🇸, USA 🇺🇸, Europe, 🇫🇷, Ireland 🇮🇪, Pakistan 🇵🇰, South Africa, UK 🇬🇧, Indonesia 🇮🇩, and somewhere where a war was presently  existing when the time we chat (I don't know if he was bluffing since I unintentionally click the exit button) hence continue learning from them through questioning 😁.

Furthermore, what worries me is the fact that their are individuals below 18, which is not a legal age, who are in this site. I salute to kids who have said that they don't engage such activities and they even added that they could manage and handle things responsively. But still, this worries me since we never know how wrong people bring toxin to every youngster's mind 😔.

On general, Im thinking that this site helps us to allow tolerance as we discover that we are unique individuals thus, we can put ourselves onto others shoe. Aside from this, with the kind of situation we are facing in (Pandemic) I'm hoping that this site would contribute goodness to everyone who visits this, of course considering its true aim, that is to make friends and understand each other. 😀👌