@poojakumar I guess you misunderstood my line, I am not saying its your mistake, ofcourse whats your mistake in this, I am saying that only in this world have the power to bring him back on the line, but just as he shouldn't be unfair to you so I would recommend to ask him "why" and then be a observer

@poojakumar Just one correction in first para. as if he dont have it then he will be doing this afterwards too

@poojakumar Now I get the whole part, Its really hard on your part I can understand, I know for a woman its unbearable something like this and obvious for everyone even if my wife would have done it then I wouldn't have cared about her, maybe he deserves forgiveness or not thats something only you can decide based on if he regretting and also more importantly if he had and currently do have a care and love for u, as if he had then he will be doing after wards too

But before taking the step of divorce you should listen his part too his answer of why, see everyone makes mistakes, for a girl I guess dad is their hero sometimes he too makes the mistake, please judge very closely and observe is hand movement when you ask him "why"

if you even wants to take a divorce then you can too take it after asking "why" you just have to ask one simple question " Its fine you had this, but I want now you to come clean to me, and tell me very honestly, what was the reason, I mean the other girl you were attracted to other girl was she beautiful was I boring or what? and please carefully listen to the answer because his answer will very clearly tell you if he is prone to do it again or not? if he is then we'll discuss whats the best we can do in this case,
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@poojakumar You There?

"Addiction can only be removed by a person who love the soul who is in addiction"

a famous quote. Hope you have heard it.
If you are getting love affection and you too have the same feeling, then damm the society and people, you gotta help that man. and get it out of that addiction

I believe addiction of anything is bad, thats the quote from the doctor addicted to healthy food is too bad, but if all this started due to alcohol, then my dear I guess he needs you badly, ofcourse he might be doing several thing that's hurting you but all over and above that if you love the man then I you should help him, I dont know how big is the mistake and I am not saying to forgive him, but help him.

I know several people who are divorced, may be they re marry or they live like that, the whole intention is you dont have to trouble anyone and try to understand other party their like dislike their needs ... if other is also doing the same then its perfect, if they are not. then occur that divorce thing

Ok, see I it in this way, there are 2 questions let me answer them,

marriage is when you think this the person I can trust upon, see everything is a part of world, sometimes people do fight, sometime they love, sometime they get bored, everything will come in the path after marriage, but if both the party(man and woman) have been truthful to each other and both are a good person by heart (i mean no have the intention of just troubling other) that marriage is succesfull thats is what marriage is..

secondly after divorce, divorce is when you think that the other party(man or a woman) is been causing issues and delibrately not trying to solve them. if thats the reason then you should get a divorce, life doesnt end after that

I am just saying this from that man point of you, ofcourse he shouldnt do like it, and I know you wont like it but thats the truth its better he left you, because if someone cant stay commited to a relatationship he only committed then ofcourse he dont worth a girl's precious time and heart

You want girls to hit you... for your info vagina can't enter your ass baby