@Guilty-Sin If it hurts the feelings must not have been mutual, which seems to be the norm. One person in love, the other: not so much. Relationships tend to be rushed when new, no real foundation; things in common, morals, values, differing religions, cultures, and other important considerations are mostly ignored or blindly accepted; and so, when the exciting newness of the weakly-bonded partnership wears off, it all goes to crap.