@cjko & @Mr_Peanut First of all, you might want to define what a ‘real friend’ is to you. When you do that, try to be such a person to other people.
I lacked ‘real friends’ at a time because I had a romanticized ideal of a friendship. Then, I had some emotional issues I thought a ‘real friendship’ would cure. How wrong I was!
@robinnotthehood smoking stopped me being bored, stopped other people being boring, to some extent. It would keep me awake. It would make me want the evening to go on longer, to prolong the conversation, to enhance the moment. If I was asked, would I do it again, the answer is probably yes.
I regret nothing. Every cigarette I’ve ever smoked was a good cigarette.
@odin said in what scares you the most??:
Failure 🙂
What scares me the most is the unknowing of where I will be in a year once I finally walk that stage to grab my degree. However, wasn't our entire lives up to any point unknowing?
@liliputian1 said in Finally I reached 1.0k reps. [What a momentous event]:
Thanks @Mr_Peanut, you are the one who gave me the 1000th like.haha.
Background music is
You are not aloneby Michael Jackson. Like WTF.hahaha
Congratulations @Liliputian1 & @Mr_Peanut !
I loved your words here,they were very touching. 😭
You deserve it 😊
@what-is-this It's got an ultimately powerful message. It ultimately makes good points we should all listen to.
@cjko one is heart broken and the other is already in a relationship. So yeah, the one who is already in a relationship with some other person has clearly moved on faster, while the other keeps guessing the whats, whys and hows..
@mr_peanut said in Not everyone can answer this....:
What was your first vehicle?
My very first ashamed to say was a Talbot Sunbeam.. hahaha .. boy did I have some fun learning to drive in that wreck :D
This pic is not of the one I owned...
I never got a pic of that lol (you can see why hahaha)
Maruti Suzuki Swift VDi bought by my father
@agent-peanut Spectacular capture
@cjko Never cheat. Never lie. You will fight. Like you did with your brothers. But they are still your brothers. Marriage should be forever, not until one of you or the relationship changes. If you marry the right person, make it a lifelong journey. I am not married but i haven't know divorced or re-married people who are truly happy. They do exist, but they are an exception.
@odin yes this is 100 % true i am most emotional person on this chat site
@mr_peanut Bad science.
It is total nonsense and has repeatedly been proven to be nonsense.
@cjko Apart from having a physically longer life, a stable, long-term relationship also brings you fulfilment and happiness. It allows you to develop patience and a giving personality even if you don't inherently have these qualities.
Short term relationships can rub you really thin. Each one leaves you feeling less fulfilled than the last.
Quantitatively and qualitatively, long term relationships seem better for us than short term ones.
@its-bobby
I don't feel any lie is bigger then another and I have admitted all my truths and repented myself.
I can't really choose a lie if I no longer have one and besides, since all that weight was lifted off my shoulders I used to be a compulsive liar but I don't think I can think of one its been so long since I have ever felt any need to lie. If I had lied I probably did it on purpose to save my skin but thats about it. I don't have any huge secrets or anything that I have not already dealt with and forgotten.
All the weight gone from my shoulders (***unless I need them, then I'll lie here XD)
@shaun-durwin just choose one of them select them according to your feelings after seeing their photo in post
@wildwallflower I will handle tht situation if sHe know the truth bcz 1 day she would have to face the truth so why not today
@cjko Oh yes that has happened. Some people have instantly disappeared from my life almost without warning. Normally, I’ve found that it’s because they are dealing with personal difficulties or feelings that they don’t know how to deal with, so they ghost in a sense to figure things out for themselves. Then, sometimes (not always) they come around, but usually when you no longer even think about them. Interesting that things can work out that way.
