@TheRisingSun You miss the point. It's not that the problem is solely them asking ASL.
- They are not able to chat about anything else.
- Even once given ASL they don't want to talk about anything but sex.
I met a lot of nice people here, and many of them also didn't ask instantly ASL. It's not a crime to ask, it's just not good to not being able to move on from it.
And yes, in real life a lot of the times I talked with people without much context some good conversations and even made friends this way.