@Aimss1035 Again I've read somewhere that "Life is like an year and pain, suffering, happiness, sadness, anxiety and every other emotions we possess are like seasons which keeps on changing irrespective of the need to be changed".
As much I've learnt from life is that we have no control on the seasons i.e.(pain, suffering etc) as it's universal it will happen when it's the nature's need but what we could control is our response in the reflex of the change.