At my worst - pink sweat$

I’ve been going through something very similar with my boyfriend actually he’s also been really unmotivated except I was the one feeling different about our relationship. But we sorted it out. I suggest you both talk about your problems Openly and honestly cause it sounds like you’re both lacking communication and clearly he needs to put so effort into a lot of things cause lack of motivation could be what caused him to love you differently. It’s probably been the whole Covid thing tbh. So I think apart from more communication you should both support each other any way possible to improve and mend your relationship

So like my bf 21 yrs old can be very immature, childish and selfish. He has financial issues, yet spends all his money like there’s no tomorrow and then complains he’s broke and asks me for money
to get food delivery or something else. It’s never a lot of money but it starts to build up cause I’m a first year uni student so I need to provide for myself. Mind you I’m 1 1/2 years younger. So apart from the finance I’ve helped correct his cv and said he should apply for a job before everything opened up in April. I’ve reminded him multiple times and he’s not done it. He’s played video games all day instead. Which brings me to my next problem. That’s all he does. I’m not exaggerating like
Most girls do. From the moment he wakes up till 12am he’s playing. I don’t even get a good morning or good night text anymore. He wasn’t always like this he used to be extremely clingy and I’d told him we should stop calling every single day for 16 hours. Cause we’d call, sleep on call and never end it. And it got exhausting for me cause I wanted my worn space so then he agreed cause he wanted the same. But now he won’t even text or call. He texts me and I reply but it’s been left in read or on delivered for the next 5 hours. I’m not asking for a lot just 5 mins away from the game. I’m starting to loose feelings but it’s more complicated as to why it’s hard to leave… anyone have advice? Or want more of the story so you can get a bigger picture?