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here's something easier for me:

Accept an apology from my best guy friend David's murderer (yes I did have a friend killed a few years back)….or forgive my mother for ruining my life

No contest. I'd hug the murderer.

And many people say what they think other's would like, or that is P/C...I admit I wanted to kill many people who hurt me, or other things like that. I'd take the blame, especially if I was the POS I am right now in today's society. Then maybe I'd get killed in jail and be finally dead.