Just having the chance to talk forces you to open up more and get to know each other better.
When you feel comfortable with a person at a communicative level that has become more and more intimate, it is natural to miss him even physically.
As cold and impersonal as the screen may be, what passes can be real and true, maybe even a little more intense because it is fought.Missing someone is possible and natural, Think of those who live in a shanty town and want a house with hot water and sewage ...
Those who have never met their father are missing a piece of the puzzle of their life, and you try to deny it because it hurts you, it's natural and right ...
Love is missing in those who have not yet experienced it ...
Missing the person for whom he lost his head to those who love only platonically
A child is missing for those who cannot have it
You can't miss a thing or a person that you don't know exists, some things feel strong and true inside you even if you have never experienced or met them.
Ghosting .. going away without a reason is a technique widely used by manipulative people, especially among family and friends, but even more today in chats and soial networks, because you feel the need to be desired, but there is also the possibility that he has noticed a wrong or done something wrong and wants to leave without giving explanations .. delete and unsubscribe
Should I get a knife and kill myself already?
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@kyra-white btw sorry dude i just found lots of grammatical and spelling errors i made writting fast and angry, i think i fixed everything now if you didn't understand something
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@thestrangest I definitely think that I was a coward at the time.
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@kyra-white and do you think people calling you a coward for it then or now is GOOD, do you think it is helpful, would it have helped you? I'm pretty sure it wouldn't but hey to each's own, i like being called weak even if it isn't true when i know the other person believes i can improve myself and is trying to provide constructive criticism but i wouldn't like that from strangers in the internet if confessing that i feel like shit and want to give up
"I feel like shit, I want to kill myself"
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@thestrangest It would have been better than the typical "don't do it".
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@thestrangest By the way, do you have any personal experience with suicide? (have you ever tried killing yourself?)
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@kyra-white a "don't do it" from a person you love is a lot more useful than a "you're a coward" from a stranger or a person you dislike, now I'm sure that if you say so a "you're a coward" from a person close to you would've been helpful but the point is, it depends on the person saying it and i definitely don't think the guy calling the girl a coward knew enough to assume that such a statement wouldn't just be received as hurtful and derogatory since this was this girl's first post
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@thestrangest Umm... Did you just call me a guy?
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@kyra-white said in Should I get a knife and kill myself already?:
@thestrangest By the way, do you have any personal experience with suicide? (have you ever tried killing yourself?)
Once, I've also been suicidal for a long time. Gotta sleep bye
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@kyra-white said in Should I get a knife and kill myself already?:
@thestrangest Umm... Did you just call me a guy?
I was talking about sup since he's the one that said she's a coward first. I don't know what gender you are tho
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@kyra-white got to go
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@thestrangest ok, bye.
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@blooddrunk
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@iinutellaii ha
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@blooddrunk Blood would you rather talk or juggle
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@iinutellaii Eat
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@blooddrunk bless you
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I want to tell all the people here who are calling her Coward and all those derogatory terms,
Me, @TheStrangest or @Willoww NEVER EVEN ONCE have supported the girl's suicidal thoughts.
And instead of fucking calling her "Coward" and shit, just remember: Suicidal people are much much braver than the entire human population. Even in the worst situations, we get up, we rise above all the hatred we have for ourselves. Yes, we do it with the support with of our family, friends, therapists, and psychologists but it takes our fragile will power to come back and decide that we want to live on. We are so "weird" that you can call us out with the world's ugliest curses, we would just laugh it off and go away but the self-hatred can make us contemplate suicide. This self hatred is usually because of mental illnesses like depression, anxiety, Bipolar Disorder and so on. If someone's struggle or pain disturbs you and you can't help them, step away and KEEP QUIET. Don't go on fuelling the pain that has brought them to such consequences.
Killing oneself is WRONG. But calling them out for that is WORSE. Suicidal people need emotional support They need help to see the good side of the life. They need people to make them realise that there is life beyond all that they are going through. They need someone to sort out their problems.
If you don't know how to help, it's okay. Just keep distance and don't say anything at all. Check out the internet to see how you can help them, if you really feel like helping them. I'm asking out because we perceive things differently. A suicidal person might take your words(you assumed that would help) rather very differently. Like @sup that day told me, he was calling her Coward so that it hits her and she becomes strong. Well for that, it might work for you @sup but for suicidal people, it doesn't.
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@girlwhois16 Welcome to the internet, a place where people don't take you seriously, and you shouldn't, too.
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@blooddrunk Well, a lot of people look up to Internet for finding support because they can't get it in real life. So, I just want to help and protect them.
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@girlwhois16 That's a good thing you're doing and I encourage such, but you have to have in mind there are trolls, scammers, people that don't care, people that want to upset everybody, and your effort toward preventing it is in vain.
Good luck anyways if you proceed with trying to stop such.