no it be allright
My mama and papa are fighting I think they might get divorced....
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Like the title says I think they might get divorced....who should I live with my mama says it's my fault and my papa yells at me I've had suicidal thoughts but who should I go with .......did I mess up....π’
Santa is my dad ππππ
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@XxHΓ΅neΓΏBΓͺarxX NO you did not mess up chances are that your parents are saying that because theyre angry at the time
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@animieelizabeth thanks Beth (amma call you dat If that's alright) but that means a lot
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i dont like it
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@animieelizabeth what would you like me to call you xD
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elizabeth
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@XxHΓ΅neΓΏBΓͺarxX you're not responsible for your parent's relationship, that's their stuff to deal with and they're both adults. Please don't take that guilt and responsibility on yourself, it'd be misplace and will do you no favours
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@Scottish thank you it's just heart breaking really I mean what if I loose both of them maybe I'm over thinking it I mean I had a fucked up life already but I'll update everyone on it thanks
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@XxHΓ΅neΓΏBΓͺarxX They may well work things out. Relationships have ups and downs, it's not always rosy. But if they separate then just remember they are divorcing each other, not you. Your relationships with them may even improve as they could become happier and more relaxed because they aren't fighting anymore. Maybe you should talk to them? It's absolutely ok to seek reassurance. When i left my children's mum i made a big point of making sure they knew i wasn't leaving them and would always love them. It's important that kidd kids don't end up as collateral damage. Just remember they are rejecting each other, not you
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@XxHΓ΅neΓΏBΓͺarxX I swear desire it's not you fault at all and you can choose both, but don't get into Thier head, it's not a problem that they are not a match as soul mate suppose to experience each other move on..
For sure you wanted to see your parent happy yeah, if you parents are happy to go sperate way you should be happy for them do not matter what decision they make, u no need think much about it, you have to see them as individuals, love them as you did not taking sides.. ask them, make a condition saying that
1 not to talk to you about Thier hatred to each other towards you.
2 tell them not to ask you to take sides because you love them equally as a child it's universal love towards patent and as indivual your mum and dad know that .
3 make time to meet equally not having any agenda.
4 accept as it is
All Energies of the universe's bless you and guide you what you seek for ..
