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Share your problems with Sir Devil
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I have fear of failure fear of not meeting the right expectations for the future
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@lila there is nothing that can be done there. You see, the future is uncertain. Anything can happen. You may meet the expectation. You may not. If you didn't, stay strong and work better the next time because that's the only positive response. What really matters here is not giving up
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@lila so, work as hard as you can for now, without worrying about the future
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Someone has been downvoting all my post from the last 2 days. Although I don't care much about it, I just want to if I offended you or gave you any bad advice. I want to know it, so that I can rectify it and be better in the future
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G'Day, everyone! I am active now....
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I've gone to school for 7 years to become a doctor of physical therapy (DPT). When I first started my graduate studies, I was single and had many dreams I wanted to follow. I recently graduated and passed my exam to be licensed. I also have been in a relationship for the past 2 and a half years. However, I feel stuck in the area I've lived in my entire life. My boyfriend has a house here that we live in together and we also have a dog. He recently started a new job here and is extremely close to his family. As for me, I can't find a full-time job and the few that are around (more than a 45 min drive or so) have a VERY low pay grade. I didn't become a DPT to settle for an extremely minimal salary and to work in a setting I do not enjoy. I have big dreams that I wanted to live and fulfill and I feel like I'm stuck here. My boyfriend has a job that he can easily find elsewhere and the house can easily be sold. The only non-replaceable thing is our family - I get that it's extremely important especially if we want to have a family someday. I don't mean to be selfish but I want to move, I want to work, I want to live out my dreams.
I just don't know what else to possibly do. Our relationship is great except for the fact that maybe we aren't sexually involved as much as I would like. I guess I don't know what to do. Settle for less?
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@lostdoc6 I must say, No, don't settle for less. We all have our own individual dreams and goals but still, it is a personal issue and it can only be solved by talking it out with your boyfriend. Discuss it with him about your low pay and the potential higher pay in other places. You and he must discuss it and then settle with what you both agree.
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@lostdoc6 a higher pay would also be helpful for your's future family....
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I'm just so stressed out my father in law just passed away my wife was just diagnosed with breast cancer and she has reanal failure. Feel alone and depresed .and feel I need to stay strong for everyone but dam.I'm onley humen I think don't even know at this point 
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@lovewantos Sometimes life throws us in an inescapable situation, where we can do nothing but grieve and hope. The dead can never return to life. All we can do now is grieve and remember them. All we can do is hope that our loved ones would survive this ordeal. All I say, it's okay to cry sometimes and it's only natural to feel stressed. Just not giving up here is being strong. I want you to find someone there, with whom you can share because there they can connect emotionally with you and they would know more about your family and it would be more easy for you to share your inner feeling when done with a real person.
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Good morning, everyone! I am online...
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@sir-devil hey there
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@greenlemon hello!
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hows your day?
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@greenlemon fine...
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@greenlemon how was yours? and how can I help you?
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i really don't know how i feel at this moment. I'm having an existential crisis right now.
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@greenlemon existential crisis, huh? why, are you not satisfied with your life?
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@greenlemon please, tell me more about your current situation. Sharing will be really helpful...
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I've started a job to earn some money so i can go back to school. the company is promising a great pay but only if i can get a couple customers, so i can kick start my job. I've asked all my friend to help me out and be my customer but they all refused and they all laughed at me. none of them want to talk to me anymore now. right now i feel super lonely cause i have no one to talk to and i can't get customers, so I'm not making much. my second job is only minimum wage so i can't save up enough to go back to school
