Hi all
I am having bad today. I received abusing messages from my landlord. He is alcoholic and smoking cannabis. i am clean person and I am trying to be nice to him. I am cleaning my room weekly I am cleaning bathroom (only I), I am cleaning floor in hole house. He never sees all these staff just complaining if I do something wrong.
I also had supervision with my team leader yesterday. She told me that some my patient complained about me. I have breached confidentiality. It was verbal message to patient mobile phone. I cannot prove otherwise. This is my contract job and expire in September. i am looking for new job. i had some very good job interviews. However, my Team leader is my referee.
UGH !!!! I TRIED MY BEST TO MAKE HIM PARTICIPATE
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I wanted him to participate in the annual function and i tried my best to do that. But he didn't participate !!!!!! I even convinced our teacher to let him participate . I had to convince her coz she things that he has potential but has a lot of ego and thus he doesn't participate in any co-curricular activities . Why is he like that !!!!!! He is a good actor and i wanted to act with him 😢😢😢
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Maybe he has something bothering him or he just doesn't want to, sounds like you're trying to force him, men don't react well to being forced to doing something.
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Why do you care so much jeez. In a couple billion years all humans will be unconscious for infinity (dead) and no one will ever be able to remember that we existed
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thats just how some ppl are. you cant make them do something they dont want to no matter how good your intentions were. i didnt join that much extra currucular activities in school coz i didnt see the need for it. maybe its the same for him?
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@cutie-cat Have you tried offering him something (I don't know what 14 year olds use as a bribe these days).
Or may be all his ego really needs a personal invitation from the teacher telling him the play wont look good without him. -
i dont think u should do that,no one likes being dragged into or forced to do something....would you like it?
if u love someone try not to be pushy and a bossy ( nless he is into that kind of thing) about their limits and boundaries...let them open it in their own time...be patient....thats how u earn their trust and respect..and that how u can have a long wonderful long term relationship...(i figured u wanted a long term with him based on ur level of excitement and intrest).