Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me

[Yongsi Brook]

@Don_ said

I tried talking more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.

Yeah that awkward nervousness, it's better to stay quiet or else you'll ruin it somehow.
It gets really awkward and then you start ignoring the other person because you feel embarrassed 🤦‍♂️
It's a dumb thing. Very dumb.

Wow. You sound like you have gone through it too .

[Yongsi Brook]

@Vlad_21 said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:

@Yongsi-Brook In your case there are three options- make a move and be accepted, make a move and be rejected, do nothing. Do nothing-is the worst.

What if I tell you that the most scariest thing to me is making a move and be accepted and it does not works out.?!

[Yongsi Brook]

@RexGreeley

It depends what you think you want from him - a relationship, a hook-up, friendship?

This is interesting. I dont know yet. Gotta think about it.

[Yongsi Brook]

@Shardana

How can you say a story can't work?

Its just a gut feeling that it wont. None of my past relationships ended on a good note.

[Kyle 007]

first of all it all has to do with karma ( cause and effect ) you craving for him now is the result of his manifestation all along his childhood 🤦🏼‍♂️
Anyways don't make the first move even if you are desperate for him unless the guy is matured enough 🤙🏻 guys take advantage of it 🤧 you should always be in the safe side whatsoever . peace ✌🏻

[Døn]

@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:

@Don_ said

Get another crush 😂
Awesome story

I think having a crush is very exhausting 😔

Crush them, simply.

[Døn]

@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:

@Don_ said

I tried talking more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.

Yeah that awkward nervousness, it's better to stay quiet or else you'll ruin it somehow.
It gets really awkward and then you start ignoring the other person because you feel embarrassed 🤦‍♂️
It's a dumb thing. Very dumb.

Wow. You sound like you have gone through it too .

A mere attraction, got over it haha

[Yongsi Brook]

@Kyle-007

first of all it all has to do with karma ( cause and effect ) you craving for him now is the result of his manifestation all along his childhood 🤦🏼‍♂️

It works like that? 😮 so scary.

[Janet]

@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:

Its not that I want to date him.. i know it wont work out.. yet, i cant stop thinking about him.. I dont know what to do?

Care to share why it won't work out? Maybe it could? If not then like others said it is best to just try and move on. I know the heart tends to want what it cant have :(

[Shardana]

@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:

Its just a gut feeling that it wont. None of my past relationships ended on a good note.

Maybe that's the problem… past relationships. The end of one or more relationships does not indicate the end of everything. A cycle closes a new one opens. Maybe it's just fear of daring. If you think about him, if you like him and he likes you too .. give yourself a chance .. he could be the one :)

[DE_xx7]

@Shardana Antonella please dm me!

[Abdihamiid]

Is there any woman who need marriage no matter her Age

[Yongsi Brook]

@Sassy

Its not that I want to date him.. i know it wont work out.. yet, i cant stop thinking about him.. I dont know what to do?

Care to share why it won't work out? Maybe it could? If not then like others said it is best to just try and move on. I know the heart tends to want what it cant have :(

Its just a gut feeling. Anyways I have decided. Im going to move on. Wish me luck.

[Janet]

@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:

@Sassy

Its not that I want to date him.. i know it wont work out.. yet, i cant stop thinking about him.. I dont know what to do?

Care to share why it won't work out? Maybe it could? If not then like others said it is best to just try and move on. I know the heart tends to want what it cant have :(

Its just a gut feeling. Anyways I have decided. Im going to move on. Wish me luck.

I wish you the best of luck <3

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@Yongsi-Brook If you don’t do it now, then why live at all if you cannot follow what you wish for. In the future it would torture you and the thought “why didn’t I just do it” will live with you forever if you will still like that person. There is no secret sauce to it-recognise what you have to do and do it.

[Cybernatic]

@Yongsi-Brook I would like to know what changed bout him dat made you fall for him when in the past you didnt feel anything towards him(I feel like you crave the attention dat he gave to you as you have mentioned he confessed multiple times tho I could be wrong). What I would suggest is for you to get close to him once more and for a while stop thinking bout getting together with him. Instead work on developing a healthy, friendly, trustworthy and compassionate friendship with him. And once you feel like you ppl have regained the closeness you once had confess bout your real feelings

[Saanjh]

Well just let him know how you feel about him. If i were you i would do that. Don't think too much. All the best

[BloodDrunk]

@Yongsi-Brook why are you asian in the first place

[Yongsi Brook]

@Saanjh said:

Well just let him know how you feel about him. If i were you i would do that. Don't think too much. All the best

But do you think I deserve him? I literally turned him down and ignored his confessions more than once in the past. I even dated other guys in front him.

[Yongsi Brook]

@Cybernatic said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:

@Yongsi-Brook I would like to know what changed bout him dat made you fall for him when in the past you didnt feel anything towards him(I feel like you crave the attention dat he gave to you as you have mentioned he confessed multiple times tho I could be wrong).

Edited:
I am not sure tbh.. Maybe its just infatuation.. When we talked last year around Aug, we talked about our old school memories and out of curiosity I asked him why did he even liked me back then (cuz we barely ever talked in school) and when did he actually started liking me? I always thought it was 8th grade cuz thats when the rumors started coming to my ears bout him.. But he told me it was actually 2nd grade.. He started liking me since we were in 2nd grade.. He told me the reason too and it was something quite silly... I expected the reason'd be something special but bleh.. But i think from that time, just the idea that someone could like me for so long.. just the idea that someone could like me despite my flaws made me started to look at him differently when the truth is i dont even known if he even knows any of my flaws nor I know if he even still like me in that way...
I think i'm in love with that idea of love.. that idea of something beautiful that could happen between us... So yeah I'll take your advice and I'm not gonna ask him out.. I think i'll just move on or maybe just keep crushung on him from afar.. I dont want that idea of something beautiful to become something ugly... idk am I making any sense?