From my experiences falling for someone is easy, but truly loving them through thick and thin isn't, so i believe love is hard. I don't get it when people say that love shouldn't be hard, it should be natural.
Loving is just not missing someone, wanting to spend time with them.
Loving is working on things together with your partner, making it work despite harsh situations,circumstances. Loving is accepting each others flaws and wokring on one's self development, where you just don't sit on the shit( problems ) you clean it and work on it. And it's not easy, especially when you are not mentally and emotionally mature enough to understand things and deal with them properly.
When you are with someone you don't just get to know that person only, you also get to know more about yourself as well, and trust me knowing and accepting ourself is harder than accepting others 💀
And i would say accepting ourselves and others doesn't mean we are gonna ignore or put up with the poor behaviour, both party needs to work on it.
So my dear @Ruth it has always been this kind of love in my life where it takes time,efforts,forgiveness,acceptance, self improvement to truly love someone.
Or maybe i was just too fucked to begin with that's why i had it hard 😭😭 🖤💔
And i feel like i got distracted from the main topic idk 💀
Anyways if you need advice about love life you know who to ask right 😏
kinda bored so hey whats up im sam
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@vapesblitzen said in kinda bored so hey whats up im sam:
hey guys im sam! im kinda bored looking some friends i guess so yeah haha
I started to message you yesterday.
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No one knows what will become of tomorrow, knowing that even when you give your all to someone they can still leave you .I have been happy for the past eleven years with the man i love so much and love me just the same, until the twelve year of our marriage. I know that we have our difficult times, but we shouldn't let that be an excuse to why we can't love someone. I kept hoping he would come around some day, but it didn't and each time i ask him what the matter was, he always refuse to tell the truth till one day when he told me that he wanted a divorce and so we were separated. I can't really describe how i felt. I didn't want to loose him cause i still love him no matter what happened between us, so i went looking for help and i meant a prophetess who could restore hope and i told her about what i was going through and she assured me that she could help me bring back my husband and asked me to wait for a few days after that my husband will come back after she finished praying. I did as she told me to and on the fourth day my husband called that he wanted to stop the divorce and asked me to forgive him for everything he did to hurt me and the kids. I never thought in my life that this could be true and now am a living testimony, thanks to God and may God bless this lady for her help, am truly grateful. Whatsoever, you are going through she can have it solved if you want contact her on. [email protected] if you need her assistance.
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@vapesblitzen heyy
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@vapesblitzen add me looking for ppl to chat with/ get to know and talk about anything!! ☺☺
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Hello beautiful
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@vapesblitzen what’s up ?! I’m new on here I need friends too 😂 Don’t be shy love
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@vapesblitzen hey beautiful
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@vapesblitzen hey my name is Sam too
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@vapesblitzen are you agree talk to me ?
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holy shit sam you are as beautiful as an angle literally. im down to talk if you are.
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Yes....i will agree
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@vapesblitzen message me
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@vapesblitzen Hello can you be my friend
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@vapesblitzen is Sam short for anything?
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@vapesblitzen Hey
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@vapesblitzen can we chat? Dm me?
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@vapesblitzen hey, wanna chat?
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@vapesblitzen me too. It’s harder to do than you would think. Surprise, people are not very talk about. I’m looking for someone to read my screenplay I’m writing. It’s an audio play. I’m thinking like a podcast. My big question is is it funny?