What i do when i have trouble sleeping is to give my body that if im not too tired, stay awake and sleep well the day after like once in 48hrs
Is being a loner the worst?
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I'm 62 years old and have been a loner most of those. No particular reason, it just works for me. I've been
questioning it's effects on me. For instance. It means I am self taught. I know how I fit in my world but others don't always match my perception. -
I don't think It's the worst. It's a way of living. some are more comfortable in this way and that's okay. in my opinion everyone has their own world even the most social ones.
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my therapist has told me it is not healthy. but that way my whole life
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Hmm I've always been a loner so I don't think there's anything WRONG bout it, lest I hate myself, but my parents keep bitching bout it lol even though I'm not like socially inept or whatever
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@Don-Rose if that's what you're comfortable with rhen it's a good thing. Don't question yourself for being you, what else is there?
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Being a loner isn’t the worst, but being lonely is.
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@pardis2001 Thanks for the reply. I think I'm asking if being a loner necessarily makes one lonely. I agree everyone has their own world to inhabit and give life. I guess my world requires little maintenance and, therefore, few stewards.
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@cyberosy Knowing how one can be lonely in a sea of lost souls is the worst. When being lonely is a longing for bodies to surround you, empty vessels may be enough but being lonely for honesty and truth can be the worstest..
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@Don-Rose
i think that being a loner is not a bad thing at all, as long as you're comfortable with it and it's not forced upon you by others. -
@sarah_the_magpie Thank you. As a loner, I agree it's not bad thing at all. It does get a little sad when making myself laugh hysterically and having no one else to get the joke but no one also to say "That's not funny.":)
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If it feels right, then who cares what anyone thinks
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I guess I was testing any diversity advocates. Not much of that as a loner. I should be admonished for my lack thereof. Just kidding.