Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
Lets make a topic topic topic
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Browsing the recent topics, all I see were topics like Im looking for..., we lost chat if you saw this msg me, hmu, im bored and this never ending looking for pro ana coach.. What happened to tws? Why its seem like it looks a lost and found site, a dating site..This site must be fill with good topics, good convos and great users.. Hopefully this 2020 Tws be back to its happy place and users be safe.. Looking forward to old users,regular users and newbies..
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@Bela-Hella
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@Ash-33 really amen coz Im back.. haha
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go look at my topics! im putting in the damn effort! cant help this place has been taken over by the denizens of the gutter!
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hey ash, you call yourself a moderator? is that in title only? you realize you have these ANA rooms where you are basically sitting back allowing people to slowly kill themselves through starvation and even having others help them!!!!!!!!????????? not your problem, right? pathetic
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Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmhello
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@Bela-Hella
You either die a hero, or you live long enough to see yourself become the Villain. This site is suffering from its own past. Until there are those who remember what was, they can never appreciate what can be. That is why.... All the old users should leave this site 😶 -
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u are right my support is with u :p
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@Bela-Hella regrettably, the regulars are busy with work. some already graduated from HS or college or graduate schools :smirk:. things will never be the same. :-(
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@Bela-Hella I'm new, literally joined up last night, and I'll try to do my best to write up some good content.
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@Bela-Hella then you can create a topic like old days, Bela with 1 L
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@Bela-Hella
oh my god YES, i couldn't agree more. it's sad how there have been so few quality topics here lately. what happened to tws? :/ -
@sarah_the_magpie well, cause you are not here always..thats why
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@Bela-Hella We all can make a change to tws if we truly wanted to. The bulk of the people who come to tws may be visiting it for the first, and unfortunately, the last time. It’s up to us users to make make as many of them as possible want to stay, or at least raise their interest enough to come back in some time. If we start saying ‘hello’ and acknowledging people is simply a sign of good manners. If we make ourselves noticed and encourage visitors to talk to us it's good because activity starts when users chat so this is the best thing we can do. I don't think users feel welcomed here because that is due to they join, they message. No one responds they go away.
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@NathanOnFire Welcome to Tws, You are now officially certified Twsians with my blessing.. hehe.. Enjoy and hoping to see a wonderful write up from you..
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@spaceboy Im unstoppable crazy patootie.. Miss u friend..
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@mikeJB not your stalker but I browse your topics..keep it up!
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@mikeJB said in Lets make a topic topic topic:
hey ash, you call yourself a moderator? is that in title only? you realize you have these ANA rooms where you are basically sitting back allowing people to slowly kill themselves through starvation and even having others help them!!!!!!!!????????? not your problem, right? pathetic
Yup,none of his business with what they do to themselves over stupid things they read on the internet. Not his concern. Have you done anything about it?
@Bela-Hella said in Lets make a topic topic topic:
Browsing the recent topics, all I see were topics like Im looking for..., we lost chat if you saw this msg me, hmu, im bored and this never ending looking for pro ana coach.. What happened to tws? Why its seem like it looks a lost and found site, a dating site..This site must be fill with good topics, good convos and great users.. Hopefully this 2020 Tws be back to its happy place and users be safe.. Looking forward to old users,regular users and newbies..
Good to see ya back! And...right!