@Wet-pussy lol right
Is it disrespectful to like other girls sexy/halfnaked photos on instagram when in a relationship?
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@Kina-joy yeah, sorry didn't make it very clear in the post. Thanks for replying, glad other people agree with me
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@alex_lexy this is exactly why it upsets me! and i've tried to talk to him about it but he doesn't understand. it makes me feel so insecure, and in general i feel like that's so disrespectful to your partner to do that! can you give me any advice on what you'd do?
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Break up with that fucking bitch thats my advice... lol
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I am a girl. Personally for me not really since we are also gushing over a half naked man who is not our bf but a person who we admire.
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i don't do that though, didn't before and i certainly wouldn't if i'm in a relationship
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I think it all depends on why you are liking those photos
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yeah i understand that too but he's following all these girls who's instagram's are basically dedicated to half naked pictures and literally just showing off their ass. What other reason would he follow them? do you see what i mean?
i just don't think it's fair on me
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If she just keeps on doing it.. its time to let go
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If after you talk with him he doesnt get it or wants to change I guess you either stay and take it or leave. But usually for me, it's a deal breaker someone that doesnt take the extra mile for me.
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You can relinquish the relationship, if you do think that liking their pictures is disrespect to you. IMHO, it is not a big deal. It could be big deal for me, if someone liked full naked pictures of them.
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Depends on you. Why you liking them in the first place?
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Depends on you. Why you liking them in the first place?
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@alex_lexy sorry i didn't make it very clear in the original post. I'm a girl and it's my boyfriend that's been liking the pictures. I genuinely just don't think he understands how much it affects me. We've had a couple miscommunications in our relationship because he's quite laid back so doesn't really get bothered by things. Whereas i'm quite insecure and emotional.
But as i said i just feel like he doesn't understand that it upsets me so much
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@BrookieCookie sorry i didn't make the original post very clear. I'm a girl and it's my boyfriend that is liking the photos. How do you feel about it?
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It is very disrespectful to stare at naked pictures online when you are in a relationship in real life. Very disrespectful.
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Hey whats up babe
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Of course it's disrespectful, it's really not on to behave like that. It's also disloyal, untrustworthy and i would day kinda unfaithful in my book. Start liking half naked photos of guys and watch him throw his toys out of the pram...
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@Scottish Thank you! that's exactly how i feel about it. The thing is though he's incredibly laid back and i've used the whole "how would you feel if it was the other way around" but he doesn't see my point. I really appreciate your reply though, it's made me feel a lot better in how i'm feeling
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@Lurker that's what i'm afraid of, because that's exactly how i feel. i don't know how to show him how it's making me feel. Surely me even just mentioning it to him should make him realise
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I usually say, if we are not feeling good about something we should change it, do so, you aren't happy with him and he doesn't make anything about it? Start over! :shrug: