Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
Are you a good friend? Why or why not?
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@User-Left yes!!!! most interesting topics were already posted in this site somewhere/sometime. Reviving them will allow the new users to post, which, eventually will make this site alive.
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@Leoweirdo hmm
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@User-Left huh? i have a post here sometime in april 2019. i just revived it. what do u mean its not interesting? have you checked all the topics i recently revived?
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@Bart wtf..bart!!!that was you!!!
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@Leoweirdo 😂
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@WtfJudith At the moment I think there is no such thing called a good friend or bad friend. Some people get connected at certain situations over certain reasons. When those conditions cease to exist they drift apart ? Its a natural process I guess, unless, there is a commitment to keep in touch like you said. But the problem with commitment is that it would end up in only one person who is usually committed to this commitment!
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@Leoweirdo said in Are you a good friend? Why or why not?:
@User-Left yes!!!! most interesting topics were already posted in this site somewhere/sometime. Reviving them will allow the new users to post, which, eventually will make this site alive.
Now let's all be grownups here and admit, you are not just reviving interesting topics :smirk:
But I agree, this one is!
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@petrapark3r hahaha...exactly :smirk:
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@Angry_WtfJudith said in Are you a good friend? Why or why not?:
@layla your cat is so sexy, follow me so we can share pics
And here i thought you were into dog's nudes :smirk:
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@Leoweirdo said in Are you a good friend? Why or why not?:
@petrapark3r hahaha...exactly :smirk:
Hehe, I just realized a wonderful downside of what you're doing :yum:
You'll get notified of anything that gets posted to every freaking topic out there :joy:
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@petrapark3r hahaha...yes!..somebody deleted all the nudes in this site. I cant find some posts.
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@Willow said in Are you a good friend? Why or why not?:
@mr-h HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHA
bitch you cute f you think it only happens once per year
And for you...i dunno...you can be fine one moment and the next you are manstruatingHe meant between the 31st of february and the 30th of february, he just switched the order :joy:
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Look, honestly, I think we need to reinspect the word friendship. Because I've seen mention too often, that it's such a bad thing that people grow apart...
I don't think it is. People also die, and you cannot have the same kind of relationship with them anymore. That doesn't mean you hadn't been friends. I think we all have to learn to treasure good memories. I do agree, it is hard if a friendship actually breaks, if you hurt each other. But if you just grow apart, then why wouldn't you celebrate your friendship as long as it lasted and be thankful for it?
Let me portray one example of a friendship. Say you, a straight boy, have a really deep friendship with a girl. And then one day, she falls in love, and a bit later gets married. It is only natural that you cannot share intimate (not talking about sex) moments with her anymore like you might have. The friendship will change. And if you move to another continent, it might grow apart completely. But that's the circle of life. And if you 2 were real friends, you keep caring, even though the relationship is no more.
But of course we all wish for that one friend – yeah, one friend would be enough – who remains, who'll stay for life, whom you'll always be able to rely on. If you find such a friend, just marry Him. Problem solved :joy:
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@JessicaLou said in Are you a good friend? Why or why not?:
@User-Left yes!!!! most interesting topics were already posted in this site somewhere/sometime. Reviving them will allow the new users to post, which, eventually will make this site alive.
Ugh, but you keep on digging out my old cheesy topics 😂
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@WtfJudith hahaha.. :smirk:
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I am a good friend when the others borrow me money.:))
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@WtfNudith I'm a ninja at friendship, it's love where i come unstuck