Does it consider as cheating if u have a partner and u love him so much but u sext with strangers online

[iamtheniceguy]

@dee16 just curious. Better to have one sexter whose amazing than a whole normal bunch. saves on time and costs and even make it easier by finding easier ways to sext. You know like skype or snapchat. Just a suggestion. I dont know you, you dont know me just being a nice guy....

[dee16]

@nice-guy I did found this one guy called..I don't quite remember his name, good man or gentle boy or something so anyway I would say he is definitely a sext keeper :p and yeah its not a very good option to sext here but let me make up my mind first

[mxm]

dude its totally cool you are not married to her so you are still a free man

[A Former User]

If he finds out then i guess his reaction will give you the answer. Which is yes

[A Former User]

yes yes yes and definitely yes
that's called cheating

[A.le]

I don't think it's cheating...it depends on the circumstances really... I would like to find someone to sext with, but don't feel like it would be cheating on my man...maybe I'm wrong

[A Former User]

@a-le you are wrong ,definitely wrong
how would you feel if he did the same thing with a person other than you?
if your reply is that you don't mind..then girl..its time to find a new bf..bcoz you don't love that guy really

[A.le]

@khaleezi91 well it's kinda complicated...I love him but I have some sexual needs he can't satisfy fully...I never cheated on him and hopefully never will but I need something more sexually that he can't give me right now...I feel bad thinking about it believe me, but what can I do?

[A Former User]

@a-le you need to break it off with him..
or talk to him about this and ask him to up his game..there is no shame in you telling him what you want from him
.see all you got is few years on this planet..and i wouldn't advise you to settle down with something that you are not completely satisfied with...it will only drive you mad as the time passes.

[Lucifer]

@a-le the way i see it you have 2 options
A) Break it up, if he finds out later he is going to be more hurt.
B) Talk to him(its the recommended option) : You can try things, spice it up.

he finds out you are sexting random idiots breakup is going to be horrible.

[A.le]

@khaleezi91 I did talk to him... we've been together for many years and sex is great and I'm happy with him, really...but sometimes I feel like the need of being desired and have sexual attention and when I find myself kinda flirting with random man I realise that is because I need more...and It makes me feel bad coz would never wanna hurt him...

[A.le]

@lucifer_ I did talk to him about how to spice up our relationship. I've always been very open minded, curious and creative when it comes with sexual relationships, but I'm worried to push the limits and make him feel like he's forced to do something he doesn't really want... I told him in the past maybe to try a threesome or going to a swing club (it would embarass me as well but excite me also)...things like that...he said "yes...maybe..." wasn't too convinced, I feel bad insisting so I just did not mention again

[Lucifer]

@a-le
Well if he is a shy guy,
Start small use toys, try role playing, then move to the biggies like the club and unless you are going to bring a girl over never ask a guy about threesome.

[A.le]

@lucifer_ we do use toys and did try role play... sex in different places (like parks or other public places, I actually love that), would like to try clubs but I guess I'm scared it might make things worse...oh and when I mentioned threesome I said we could try ffm first to see how we both feel about that...Shit, I feel like there's something wrong with me!

[Lucifer]

@a-le Nothing's wrong with you, you are an explorer he is ok with what he has.
Keep pushing a little bit or try a professional consultant, you love him, he loves you,
both want it to last you need to find something that satisfies both.

[A.le]

@lucifer_ thanks for your words ☺ I'm scared of fucking up our relationship, but I need more sexually and can't feel like a nympho for the rest of my life... I'm gonna end up cheating on him for sure if I don't find a way to make this work.

[Lucifer]

@a-le its not just your onus, he has to step up too.
if he doesn't want to try anything get him to go to a professional at least.
You cant spend your life unsatisfied or relationship might will get bitter.

[one]

According to me it's not cheating do whatever you want to do man/women..!😜😂

[Lucifer]

@one Bro how would you feel if your gf sexted with another random idiot ?

[one]

@lucifer_ no she don't caz I make her fully satisfy she's satisfied by me..😜😂 it's going private bro wat r u doing 😂😂😂