Yh
Talk to me
What will you do if the person who ghosted you comes back to you ?
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how will you handle this ? HAHA
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@cjko Well, until a post you made when you first arrived here I never even new what ghosting was :O
I think the older you get the easier it is.
I'd be like ..... oh hey, hadn't noticed you were gone and make like I didn't notice someone had done that to me. ;) -
@agent-peanut HAHAHA Omg. Ok, someone who left you without even saying a word and never contact you again.
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@cjko Oh yes that has happened. Some people have instantly disappeared from my life almost without warning. Normally, I’ve found that it’s because they are dealing with personal difficulties or feelings that they don’t know how to deal with, so they ghost in a sense to figure things out for themselves. Then, sometimes (not always) they come around, but usually when you no longer even think about them. Interesting that things can work out that way.
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@giant-panda hmm yeah some people are like that. How are you going to handle it? Ignore what they did to you and act like it never happened to you ?
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@cjko unfortunately yes,,A relationship needs alot more than just love to keep it thriving.
That’s why some couples constantly breakup then get back together.
Because they love eachother but fail each other in other important relationship aspects.
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@giant-panda WHAT? you can still accept her for what she did to you ? like how about 5 years or 3 or how many years ... you still accept it?
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@cjko hehe, as I say, when (if is more the point) they came back then I would make like I didn’t notice, probably starting with, “hey there, how you doing? You been up to anything interesting?”
Depending who it was I might even say, “Anyways, sorry but I got stuff to do. Bye” and proudly walk away thinking, nice play me (pat on my back for me) -
@agent-peanut hahaha that's a good reaction tho :D
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@cjko . I had my own reasons even talk to him
i don’t think so! -
@giant-panda haha well, it is really up to you. :)
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@cjko at my age I learnt in this life it’s more often better to play it cool than appear angry or worse still needy ;)
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@agent-peanut hahha yeah. True. :)