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Indifference in a Relationship
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Indifference in a relationship. Why does it happen? Are there telltale signs?
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@ImThatGirl yep n too many of’em
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@ImThatGirl if u r a person saying "eh" , a lot while talking about relationships then u can be 99% sure that u r lacking interest in relationships 😃
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@ImThatGirl I think it happens due to lack of the communication needed between the two person in a relationship , also it may happen due to lack of trust or fights ... Or maybe it occurs when u enter into a relationship without thinking much about the results u will get in future and how the person will treat u in different situations.
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@Ash005 Good insight. For communication, though, sometimes no matter how much you talk about your issues if you (or both of you) doesn't really do something about it, then there is no point to it.
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@ImThatGirl not just issues , all those things that can make u feel better after sharing it with him or her and working out together to do something about it , whether it's a issue or a party 😄
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@Ash005 Agreed on this one. Relationship is a partnership, anyway. Though most couples I saw who experienced this, eventually ended up drifting away.
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@ImThatGirl I think those couples who end up drifting away , they have entered into the relationship by acting out and that's why one should be real and true to a person before entering into a relationship
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@Ash005 People don't really show their true colors in the beginning, though. We like to hide behind a nice and ideal facade. Sadly, most people fall for it. Only very few would brave to show who they really are.
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@ImThatGirl yeah , and that's why many relationships r becoming an example of stupid break-up nowadays ... It's like - 'meet the person - act like u r all Mr. Or Ms. Perfect - make them feel that u r the best to love her or him - go for physical intimacy ( sometimes that's the only reason why some people fall in love with each other very quickly) - after u r tired of sleeping with the same person or u find out the reality of the person which he or she has been hiding since the day u first met her or him , u decide to break-up ' 😕...it's pathetic...I like to be real and true even if the other person likes it or not , though I have never been in a relationship , I can say all this because I can feel it after gaining knowledge from people's experiences , observing those who r already in relationship and some books too .
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@ImThatGirl Hi
also yeah I'd say lack of communicating plus not spending enough time together perhaps to actually care about each other's day-to-day
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@ImThatGirl first is lack of communication and 2nd problem is that some people think for both of you just by themselves and that causes issues. Just talk and try to solve issues together.
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When someone starts to take you for granted or not really listen to you about what you need or want, that's a bad sign of things to come.
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@RexGreeley couldn't agree more
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@ImThatGirl do you ever DM or are you a purely topical person lolol