Life is complicated and in it all people tend to get lost, chasing every desire that crosses their path. The truth is life has a very simple goal. A relationship with God and a life in search of spiritual growth is the most fulfilling path. Yes I am talking about Jesus. It's probably the answer everyone has heard but it's the truth. Most people think it's about being a good guy and doing what you can to help the community. That is an important part but not the focal point. The main point is to grow in your faith and come closer to God, and on your path share the word with all you meet. We were created to love God and be loved by Him. The wisdom and growth you gain on earth is the only thing you can take with you after death. That is why no material will ever satisfy. You can have all the money in the world, all the lovers, the best home, clothes; but at the end of the day you will die and it will be for nothing. The only thing that can truly benefit you in the long run is a selfless life, one spent in pursuit of holiness, one that gives life to others, one that pleases the Lord. I am walking that path, and this is part of it. If you want to know more, feel free to contact me and I will be happy to answer any questions and have some good conversation. God bless.
help me with life
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hello, random stranger here.
i've been having a really hard time.My family and friends calls me fat, ugly and stupid in front of all my relatives, my mom to my friends and colleagues. It is just so hard to see myself in the mirror and on the weighing scale. As a mother, she can be nice at times but crushes my self-esteem daily, saying that i'll never get married and I don't have friends. I know I am quite fat for my age and my grades are not that great, but is there something I can do? I can never have a normal conversation with her without going into arguments. I really would like to end it, sometimes. I'm bulimic and I feel absolutely disgusted with myself.I would shove lots of food then get rid of it, or starve myself occasionally. It did not change my weight much. I also have few close friends and those that know my secret told me that I was judgemental, so I would feel like I'm being judged. Generally, I am an easy going and sociable person, but I just get so so so tired trying to make others happy. Cutting helped sometimes, punching myself did too. I have to reveal my results to my mom soon, but I'm just tired because I know the outcome. I've been sick many times this year, I don't know what's wrong with me and I am trying my best to help everyone until I use up all my energy. I am just tired of living... -
I've been overweight myself, all my life in fact. It really hit me when I got up in the scale and I saw 3 digits. I was weighting over 110 kg so I though i had to do something and after 5 years here I am. I weight 69 ish kg and I'm somewhat fit...
The best and quickest way to lose weight is exercising and learning how to eat healthy. A nutritionist might be advised to help you draw your food plan. Most gyms nowadays offer that for free (at least in my country).I believe that if.you prove those ppl that you can get in shape, not only you will feel better about yourself they will also stop picking on you... hopefully! Hope I was of any help 😅