Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
How do you define friendship?
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@black_beetle hahaha,stop being sarcastic!
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I suppose I should post my thoughts on it although you guys have done a great job with your posts.
•To me a friend is someone that you occasionally hang out with and someone you have common interests with. You enjoy each other’s company.
• A best friend is someone who has same traits as a friend plus some. They are someone who you not only enjoy hanging out with but look forward to spending time with. They know everything about you and you about them. You have each other’s backs in times of need.
•Best friends become family when you absolutely cannot imagine your life without them in it. You love them like a brother or sister and would take a bullet for them. These are the type of people that no matter what happens in life you know they will always have your back.
So to all my friends, best friends, and my family I love you guys
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@football_m29 <(•.•<) Good job
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@willoww I know right my reply was longer than the post by far lmao. (>•.•)>
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true frenship means being able to lay down your own life for your fren. And, of course, loving Twenty One Pilots to death
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@football_m29 scenario, i slap you and then you slap me back...we look at eachther and both start laughing,another scenario im sitting on the couch you walk in withough knocking look in the fridge get a soda and sit down next to me. thats how black people friendships are and thats how everyones friendships should be, just an exetension of family
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Your best friend does not let go of your hand! It keeps your hand and when you laugh and cry, do not refuse, say no time, share everything with you, it's not lack, it's a plus in your life! Is alaways there for you and WITH you!!!
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@football_m30 said in How do you define friendship?:
So just curious as to what you think are good traits for a friend to possess.
What makes someone a friend?I think , we need some similarities for being friend .. Like sharing one bench in classroom or going to gym at same time or scared / love something is common .. Or just a person who seems familiar (I.e. @DIV for me 😅)
How does someone turn from a friend to a best friend?
U never know.. Yeah really u just have faith in ur friendship n friend became best friend automatically 😅 ..
At what point is a best friend considered family?
I read somewhere if a friendship long lasting for 7 years then it will be family .. Irl I have a friend which I knew since we was 5 years old or more less then 5 years old ( coz one day he came n said .. Let's watch shinchan .. N after that I said " shinchan is 5 years old and me too", to my mom 😅 ).
And in these years we don't have a single selfie but still he feels like family .. I'm family friend to his family but not him coz my parents think he is bad guy .. but they don't I'm underbog 😏 .. -
@EmmaMusic Also during find when u say leave me, he/she doesn't leave you and hugs u instead and say, don't worry. I am with you
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ah..I think a relationship that can help in times of need is real friendship
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Yes! I agree with you, Alberto James! true friend NEVER live you!!
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leave you....sorry
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@EmmaMusic yeah true, btw do u have any such friend?