With myself.
How to earn someone's trust again? is it even possible?
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Is is possible to repair the damage? How do you even lose someone's trust?
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@lil_shouboutai it's 2x Harder than the first time but its not impossible. Also it depends on what caused the trust break And how deep is the wound.
Anything wrong??
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@lil_shouboutai it depends upon a lot of things but in general I believe that if the trust in the beginning was strong and TRUE then it's always possible to get it back again because sometimes people think that someone trusts them upto a certain extent but it's not always exactly what you think. Don't be negative about this but try to recall things that give hints to the reality of the trust
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@Hunter-Nebid Thank you! I am trying to figure how to earn someone's trust back who is currently not talking to me. I honestly have no idea how I lost their trust.
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@Ash what is trust? How do even earn it in the first place?
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@lil_shouboutai how would you like to talk about it ?
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@Hunter-Nebid thank you but right now I am trying to process everything. Like what is trust even? how do you give it to someone?
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@lil_shouboutai I'm just tryna help you know
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@Hunter-Nebid yes and thank you so much. I really need it but i need to process it first cause if not, it was just be a lot of rambling. me letting out of my frustration, my sadness, anger, and even blaming...
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@lil_shouboutai Trust wont be trust if its easily lost . So to gain someones trust again this means you should change urself or leave them .
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@The-Mods both are tough, to change yourself for someone is never good. you should change yourself for you. And to leave someone who you care for is rough... I wish i could be a person who just walks away and not care.
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Yes. Trust when broken is more like a severe hurt..it pains a lot. You can heal and regenerate but there are always scars left behind that don't fade away.
Be honest.show them that ur truly sorry nd let them know how important they are nd that you need them back. You really want someone's trust back because they were special.. they accepted you as you.so, just hope.. they'll give you an other chance if you really deserve it nd if not it's okay we all do mistakes. -
@Lily17 thank you! It is hard asking for a 2nd chance especially when you know they can say no and not care anymore. Do we deserve 2nd chances when we are at fault too?
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@lil_shouboutai At the end 'forgiveness is freedom' n they'll realise it eventually. They giving you a chance or not is no more important than you trying to correct your mistake. second chance or not...tho everyone deserves one...you did ur part.
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@Lily17 I haven't asked for a 2nd chance yet, I want to get into a good head place before reaching out. But how long should you before reaching out when they asked to leave them alone. I know there is no such thing as perfect timing and time is something we can not get back...
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@lil_shouboutai Let them know what you feel n if they still wanna be left alone, so it be. No matter how much we want it ,we can't keep ppl with us unless they want to stay
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@lil_shouboutai said in How to earn someone's trust again? is it even possible?:
@The-Mods both are tough, to change yourself for someone is never good. you should change yourself for you. And to leave someone who you care for is rough... I wish i could be a person who just walks away and not care.
A person who walks away and doesn't care is not an ideal human in relationships . So it's great that you Care. 👍
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@Ash_wini What if someone has broken someone's heart very badly but after some time he realizes his mistake and wants another chance ..?
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@Sartz broken hearts are never easy. They probably would hv gone through more pain than the person realising his mistake. Accepting someone like that again in their life will surely come w insecurities. He has done a mistake n he must be sorry so being honest about his feelings and explaining what situation he was in at the time can help the other person understand. Everyone is different. They myt give you an other chance or maybe not..but do ur part of correcting ur mistake. The later is in their hands:)
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Nope.. It's not.. I had breakup 8 years back and haven't spoken to her till date again