@alex-pierre If you want to be happy, do not dwell in the past, do not worry about the future, focus on living fully in the present.
Listen to music, watch something funny and smile more often..
Should people feel guilty for living an ordinary life?
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Someone asked me this today, and I don’t know. And what is ordinary afterall? what makes our life extraordinary?
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Ordinary may have different definition for different people but as per my standards...
I love living ordinary life and I won't be happy with myself if I will fail to make extraordinary difference for at least one life throughout my life. -
@Pia no people should not feel guilty, but they feel thankful and appreciate what they have. but not guilty
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@Pia they should not feel guilty and I think they should feel happy for what they have and .... Nothing makes your life extraordinary unless you are a freaky teen 🤣🤣🤣 (according to me)
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@Pia said in Should people feel guilty for living an ordinary life?:
Someone asked me this today, and I don’t know. And what is ordinary afterall? what makes our life extraordinary?
No no one should feel guilty for any life they live. ( unless they are a criminal then they should haha). I live a pretty normal life. I am very lucky to have everything I do. What drives me crazy is when people ask "Why aren't you married?" Why do I have to be? I am happy with who I am and if I find the guy that completes me then great right? So why do people "feel sorry" for me or think I should not be happy. Would a man in my life make my life extraordinary? Maybe. But I am happy as is.
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Hun.. I doubt anything about anyone else ordinary or normal. He's just some of us choose to live it more freely than others but I highly doubt anyone here is normal
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@Pia since there is no wrong doing in being ordinary, I don't think anyone should feel guilty for it.
But perhaps in your friend's mind an ordinary life means a dull and dreary existence. If so then it is understandable that some negative feelings would be attached to that. Not guilt but perhaps a feeling of dissatisfaction
Dissatisfied feelings could be useful to prompt you to desire change and even make changes that result in a more fulfilling lifestyle.
I hope this makes sense to you.