Life is all about finding your true purpose and finding yourself and explore new things as a human we can see it's beauty and ugliness too, a life without any purpose it isn't life doing the same things everyday and sit up on your ass in bed and feeling helpless
Pure love is bisexual. Yes or no(and the meaning of it if so)
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It's not! Because how can you feel love if your gay? Lol
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Pure love has nothing to do with sex or sex terminology. It's universal, wanting the best for another, can be between young and old, male and female, throwing 'sexual' into it diminishes its importance and real character, which is selflessness.
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Love doesn't do that hmm hmm
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@test_account So the love itself is asexual not bi/pan(if we want to use the terminology lol)
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@Allison if we're talking about true, selfless, sacrificial love, like a Christian love, it's completely independent of romantic, erotic, whatever other inclinations, so yes Lolz
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@test_account It's still interesting that love is brought about in Christianity(when traditionally rejecting homosexuality) through bodily lust(which is also rejected?)?
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@Allison in my religion it's not a question of whether or not the people love each other or whatever. From a Catholic perspective, the two-fold goal of marriage is mutual love and the raising of children, or at least having the capacity to do so (i.e. a male and a female)
The belief is that pursuit of passions and lust outside of a normal appetite and application, like a traditional marriage, is not a good thing. This is why they also don't approve of pornography, prostitution, etc. It's seen as a 'disordered appetite' which should be kept in check through self-control. :P
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Life-giving is important then & supercedes preference(should determine it) & converts lust into passion(if principled).
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@Allison It is important, and gives a reason for passion which results in a good thing, as opposed to pursuing passion for passions' sake. And yes the idea is to control and turn the lust, which is passion taken to a blind extreme, and self-control it into a good thing. :D
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@test_account I should perhaps read into this before delving further in a 100 page forum post of questions(as i was raised away from religion). It's taken my interest recently.
It seems like a healthy roadmap of prioritization etc.
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@Allison looks like you have a good start. Lemme know if you wanna continue discussing, not that my two cents are going to help a ton but hey you never know :D
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@test_account I only made this post because "sexuality is unrelated to love" & "love should only occur between certain sexuality" seemed hypocrtical at face value & it just goes to show how hypocrisy can be generated by a sidewinding correlation between variables without knowledge of a central link.
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Love is a strong word that you cant describe. Love is wanting the bests for someone else rather than your self . And be willing to go through hard things and preventing your person from going through them. It doesnt have any sex connected to it
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Bisexual love is pure and it is as real as that of the gays, lesbians and others.
Sex appeal might play a dominant role when it comes to bisexual love. If an emotional and mental connection is the reason that makes other relations successful, the same exists in the case of bisexual love.
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@Abhay_ It's real feeling but is not permissible sin according to Christianity it seems(natural lust is excused due to the goal of life). Relationships aren't deemed "successful" if they're for pleasure/ desire at any level only apparently ? At least that's what I got from test's statements.
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@Nah I think you're just defining love in your own way. What you're saying makes me think of when people say "things never touch" & the atoms repel.
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@Allison All I'm saying is it's true for every relation of "Love" or "love at first site" starts with lust.
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