@Michel-0 yo, welcome here bro. I hope you enjoy this site!
Hello
My gf is kind of wired I don't know what to do so pls help me
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Here is my story
My gf is not talking to me for the past 6months
She only proposed me first and said some kind of words like don't leave me pls
We don't talk often
I gave her a lot of space
But still she is not talking to me
I don't even hurted her
I don't even talk dirty to her
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@Madhan089 uhh the best way to approach this kind of situation is to be direct, i guess..? have you tried asking her what's up? assuming things won't get you anywhere, believe me.
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I asked her but she is not telling anything
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She mostly ignores me
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Honestly, talk to her and be direct and get it out of her. I'm sure you've done that multiple times though. It's been 6 months. That's mind blowing to me. I'm not sure if you can be in a relationship and not talk to the person you love for a week let alone 6 months. Maybe it's time to move on? You deserve better. Either a genuinely REALLY good explanation or get out of that toxic relationship. Unless of course you have done something wrong but you're not being true to yourself. Only you can tell.
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I haven't done anything wrong bro
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@Madhan089 Then it's time for you to move on brother. Of she's not giving you an explanation then what more can you do? You have to put yourself first here. She's being really unfair to you and you need to prioritise your own mental health and wellbeing too. Move on. Live your life and find somebody new too. I'm honestly mind blown how a person that claims to love you hasn't been talking to you for the past 6 months
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thanks bro for your help
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thanks bro for your help
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@Madhan089 of course. I know it sucks to hear that moving on is your best option but think about it... If you've genuinely not done anything wrong and she won't explain then how can she expect you to stay? 6 months is just disrespectful. You obviously have communication issues and you'll have many other issues on top of what you already have. 6 months!? She's a different person now. People can change drastically in 6 months. Neither of you know each other anymore basically. Know your worth and respect yourself and respect her too. Move on for the sake of both your mental health
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Your right bro
Thank u so much for your help
Now I'm feeling well -
@Madhan089 said in My gf is kind of wired I don't know what to do so pls help me:
She mostly ignores me
... the heck is wrong with her. if i were you, i'd ignore her back lmao. it's petty, i know. but it's only fair because you don't even get a proper closure yourself.
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Yeah your right sister
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@Musa7 said in My gf is kind of wired I don't know what to do so pls help me:
@Madhan089 of course. I know it sucks to hear that moving on is your best option but think about it... If you've genuinely not done anything wrong and she won't explain then how can she expect you to stay? 6 months is just disrespectful. You obviously have communication issues and you'll have many other issues on top of what you already have. 6 months!? She's a different person now. People can change drastically in 6 months. Neither of you know each other anymore basically. Know your worth and respect yourself and respect her too. Move on for the sake of both your mental health
i agree, wholeheartedly. all this bitterness and disappointment though... i can practically taste it through the screen. is this all coming from personal experience, kiddo?
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Yeah sister
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@Madhan089 keep your chin up, brother. <33
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@writtenbyviolet wait are you asking me if I've had personal experience like this?? Haha
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I honestly think you should just leave her.....
"pls don't leave me" does she even mean it? -
@Musa7 because goodness gracious you sound like you had several down your belt.
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@writtenbyviolet oh noo I'm all good. I just spoke logically. I love to help people and a lot of people come to me for help. Within my friends, my nickname has become Wise Musa because I guess I speak words of wisdom. I'm a very positive, optimistic and motivational guy. In this case of helping him, it's only logical to leave the girl.. 6 months of not talking is no relationship or at least not a healthy one